2006-09-13 02:51:51 · 47 answers · asked by karenna m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless it wasn´t his mother, sister, or other family member, then yes, definitely! How do you know it was a woman on the other line?
2006-09-13 02:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be. 4am, woman. Come on, even if he is not physically cheating, he is up in the middle of the night talking to another woman. You do not just have casual conversation with somebody at 4 in the morning, unless you are 15 years old and on the phone all night with your friends.
2006-09-13 02:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. If this were innocent, he would be quite open with you about it. Talking to another woman at 4am sounds as if he doesn't want you know he's talking to her. Can you find her number and call her yourself? If you do, be calm and polite. Getting hysterical and angry will not make her ashamed of herself, but if you are dignified then at least you will have nothing to regret after your conversation. And for all you know, she knows nothing about you - he may have told her any number of stories to explain why he needed to call her at 4am. Remember she's innocent until proven guilty.
2006-09-13 02:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say so. Did you know the woman? If it's a mutual friend & you trust her that's one thing but if it's someone out of the blue I'd be suspicious and careful. I'd definitely ask him why he didn;t wake you up if he needed to talk instead of going to someone else. This could be the 1st sign of infidelity.
2006-09-13 02:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh Hell Yeah, If the opposite sex is calling or contacting after 11:00 pm without the knowledge of the significant other than maybe your honey doesn't find you so significant. Drink a fat martini and tell him to f off.
2006-09-13 02:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone man or woman have to talk to someone at 4 am instead of during the day it is like sneaking so yes i would definetly be supicious wouldnt he be. I would watch his behavior you can tell if someone is cheating on you. You might have trouble admitting it to yourself but ive been there you can tell and also make sure you ask him about it.
2006-09-13 02:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is this woman? Why is he up at 4am? Sounds suspicious to me!
2006-09-13 02:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be suspicious. Anyone who has personal talks with someone of the opposite sex while their partner is asleep is most likely thinking about cheating, or already has cheated.
2006-09-13 02:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course!! Anyone who is up in the middle of the night to talk to someone on the phone is obviously doing it so you don't find out. Sorry, but it sounds like he's cheating on you.
2006-09-13 02:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! Who talks on the phone at that time in the morning! I would find out who he was talking to and why?
2006-09-13 07:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋