ok i have a problem with homeosexual people i hate them i dont know exactly y but i can't stand them they disgust me. hate to say it but even this girl in my class is bi- and i cant really talk to her because she is gay.
2006-09-13 02:51:40 · 12 answers · asked by boricua chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I used to have that same problem and couldn't figure it out either. Then I came to this conclusion. They are still human beings apart from their sexual persuasion and deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. You don't have to take part in that part of their lives, however you should always treat people with the same respect you want to be treated with.
Remember that is their choice not yours and just because it's ok for them and not for you, doesn't mean they are bad people, just not what you would personally do or even like. Don't make it a moral issue either you are not God. Just like you don't like everything your bestfriend likes in food or guys. It's just different.
2006-09-13 02:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by miz_penni_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you got a big problem because if you look around now in 2006 they don't hide it and everyone is pretty much gay or bi- it is not liek back in the old days when everyone use to hide it they are everywhere....just accept it and you don't have to talk to them but you shouldn't treat them any different because they have feelings just like you and me....my best friend he is gay and if you were to meet him I think you would change your mind...but any ways I hope that helps a little
2006-09-13 09:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a very, very strong word. Have you considered why you find this group so disgusting to yourself? You certainly have the right to not associate with people you don't like, but why hate?
If you feel that strongly, just avoid the groups you don't like. As long as a person is honest, truthful and pleasant, they should receive some consideration as an honest, truthful and pleasant person.
2006-09-13 10:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a chance they are still normal people but a different tune.Try not to judge them based on the fact they enjoy company of the same gender.If you open up and ask them about themselves maybe you can understand them a little better.And just because you talk to one does'nt make you gay neither.Educate yourself you never know she /he could be a good friend oneday.
2006-09-13 10:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do need some help stop thinking bout sex all the time and these thoughts will go away when u talk to somebody dont be judgemental think bout the positives this person is giving off if there arent any avoid this person completly good luck
2006-09-13 09:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Iknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you coming from, I also have a thing about gay people, being around them and stuff but I have to respect their decision and who they are and they have to respect they way I feel about them. I just like to ignore it thats the only solution.
2006-09-13 09:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by babejules2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has she done to you to make you a hater? that her personal business. and it's not for u to judge her or anyone. how would u feel if she started judging you for being strait. and saying that she hates you? wouldn't feel all that good. my daughter has gay friends. and i like them all. they are really kool folks to talk to. and they understand & respect that she's not that way, nor would ever be..she is a christian girl. but, she doesn't judge them...she talks to everyone, no matter what..cuz that is what Jesus would want her to do. please don't be a hater.
2006-09-13 10:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing wrong with gay ppl or bi sexual ppl, the way I look at it is as long as they do there private stuff in a closet I am cool with them, as well they know not to touch me, there are boundries, they know that, and how were you raised, were your parents the same way, may you inherited what they hate as well, look to find out who started it, remember we all bleed the same color, wether were stright or not, wether were black, indian's, or even white.
2006-09-13 09:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they call that "homophobia" ... you are entitled to your own sensitivities and sensibilities as they are in tune with your core beliefs ... hatred is such a self-desructive attitude though ... dislike is strong enough and you are certainly entitled to avoid them or ignore them. unfortunately, you will receive a lot of "hate" responses for your attitude because others will not allow you to have the right to speak freely of your position without resorting to vitriolic namecalling and crude insults... your detractors will not respect your right to your own core beliefs.
2006-09-13 10:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not gay, she's bi, that means she likes both. Loosen up, try not to judge people for the way they are. Does she judge you for being straight?
2006-09-13 09:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋