you see I grew up very poor.Im a adult now I own my own buisness my own home in a nice neighborhood.I over-heard my cousin telling people that her parents said Me and my family is poor "white"trash (im not even all white)and they are High Class and it will all ways be like that.But by High class they mean crack head theifs and much worse.(but they hide it very very well)They even go to church high!I have put up with their crap all my life and can not wait to fully remove myself from them.
My question is I want revenge How can I expose them for the phoneys they are without getting them in trouble with the police?
2006-09-13 02:46:45 · 12 answers · asked by King Scott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your success is enough vengeance...
2006-09-13 02:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my own personal opinion, it's much better for you to keep with the idea of having disowned them. I have family members that I have parted ways with (my father included) and as much as revenge sounds nice at first, it's much more refreshing and fulfilling to let it go and move on knowing you are the bigger person. I've always said that just because I share DNA with someone does not make them my family. Obviously this cousin of yours is not family. Family should treat eachother at least as good as your friends would treat you, otherwise they have no place in your life. I would say you should just keep your distance and let them continue screwing their own lives up without causing you any stress or grief.
2006-09-13 02:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by TZebar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Living Well Is The Best Revenge...Screw them...Just go on with your life and leave all that junk in the past...I walked away from my family 8 yrs ago and I am a much better person for doing so and I have no regrets...
2006-09-13 02:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
send a letter to the irs anonymously hinting of all that is going on if there it is fianacial. the police if it is criminal and immigration if illigal. there is a site u might have to google u can even do it online. they will be in trouble and ur name will be also hidden.
or u can be better than them and be proud of what u have accomplised and just move on. ppl like that r not worth it
i believe in God and he will take care of ppl like that. y should u put urself in sin for them?
given u two options the choice is urs
2006-09-13 02:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your pain. Revenge is not the answer, they will get what they have coming, make your own life an example to others, help those who need your help, love well. Good luck
2006-09-13 02:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would attempt very hard to try and forget the nasty things that your family are saying about you. It sounds as though they are jealous, and only wish for you to feel as degraded as they may feel. Your continued success in life is your biggest defense and revenge.
2006-09-13 02:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge. Ignore them, get on with your life. If they're stealing and into drugs, it will eventually catch up with them.
2006-09-13 02:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters, why would you care what others think. The truth will come out sooner or later, and is really not worth your time to worry your self over it.
2006-09-13 02:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you put such value in their opinion? you only validate them by giving them any response at all. you are a self made man, get over this competitive obsession to win their favor, they aren't worth it. in time, they will destroy themselves without you having to do anything . they will be coming to you for money and assistance trying to guilt you with "but we are family!!!" enjoy your life and live it without them, they will deliver themselves at your feet in due time ... put that energy into helping people you think deserve a hand up or are in genuine need rather than agonizing over your sorry relatives ... you dont need them or their approval, you only need to approve of yourself
2006-09-13 02:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you won already.
This isn't about what they're doing with their lives, but how you feel about it.
I'd suggest writing down your feelings (you could do a letter that you never send) and moving on.
How you deal with it is all about how you feel, not about them.
2006-09-13 02:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Rue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave them to God and keep on doing what you are doing to better your life for you and your family. Every dog has their day !!!!
2006-09-13 02:56:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋