My husband has 3 outside kids that he pays child support for, he not able able to see the kids because the mother are unemployed and have nothing to do but sit home and try to disrupted our lives, We are currently trying to find way to work out visiting with the kids but the mother is very mouth and unhappy, she is always calling on the phone asking for child suppport and she is told that is taking out weekly by his employer contact the child support office, then she calls and say nasty thing on the answer machine, at time she even go so far and call my husband job. i am to the point wherer i think i need to contact this baby mama and let her know the ground rule and but her in her place and let her know i am the wife and she is just a baby mama.
2006-09-13 02:42:50 · 5 answers · asked by ms2tone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
bring it all up in court when you go for child support and visitation hearings. See how her dumb a** likes it then
2006-09-14 09:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by MzLady99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless she is threatening harm to you you should not even try to talk to her because things can get really ugly just keep it between them unless you really have to get involved. i know you are married but choose your battles. how can he not see them "because the mothers are unemployed"? is that your observation/opinion? i dont think that would make a difference. are you sure your husband isnt facilitating some of this behavior? do you have kids with him? maybe he didnt tell you the "whole" story. dont judge her, your husband made 3 kids before you and now you have to pay for his actions.he needs to sit down and talk to her and try to take care of his business but once you married him, you married all of him and his baggage so its something you're gonna have to deal with without fighting and desrespect. i do have a child by a man that is not doing his business but i dont desrespect his other baby momma(s) because he is doing for them and not mine. on the other side maybe she is jealous that he is not with her and have moved on. either way i wouldnt try talking to her, who knows what she will and wont do. just let hubby handle it and it should work out.
2006-09-13 10:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably not a good idea to fight with her. I bet it is awful to have her call all the time. It sounds like she is trying to bother you. You could call the cops and say that she is making harassing telephone calls. That way they will have record of her behavior if anything comes up in the future and for court purposes.
2006-09-15 15:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
altho you are his wife. Remember she is the kids mom. A PAIN but the mom. So go easy on the ground rules
2006-09-13 09:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by my_hart2hart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u sholud go to her put her in her places
she been very rude and disrespectfull to & your husdand
i do understand were u are coming from
2006-09-13 09:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋