theres this guy am seeing.......the sex is good but theres this one problem....he spanks me!!!!!!! I HATE IT SO MUCH!!!!!the problem is he told me he loves spanking especially since I was blessed with some BIG BOOTY......... but I SO DO NOT LIKE IT!!!so how do I tell the guy that I do not feel the whole spanking act????without making him feel like a bad lover??
2006-09-13 02:37:27 · 20 answers · asked by sweetjan20 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
just tell him....yur the best lover in the world if yu stop spanking
2006-09-13 02:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Zee@Trans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell him about it - exactly how you feel getting spanked.
2. Do something more exciting to him to motivate him to stop doing this to you.
3. If he still does not stop it, make things less exciting for him.
4. If all the above don't work - you spank him ... hard.
2006-09-13 02:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Asker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him around and spank him, ask him if he likes it - I never understood that, every now and then I'd throw out the random spank if she was getting randy, but it wasn't part of my routine, you know?
Anyway, good luck with that, some things are just built in.
2006-09-13 02:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that sex is a mutual decision and that the spanking is not mutual. He just needs to stop it now, as it causes you great pain and discomfort
2006-09-13 02:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY are you so concerned with his feelings when he obviously has no concern whatever for yours? You're letting him use you as his personal fucktoy. Haven't you any self-respect at all? Don't just tell him you don't like his ABUSIVE behavior, dump him! His abuse will only get worse and worse until he's leaving massive bruises and even broken bones. You're better off without ANY lover than with this creep!
2006-09-13 02:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spank him back. Or refuse sex unless he stops the spanking
2006-09-13 02:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I'm sure you already know, he probably picked you in the first place because of your ample assets in the rear. They compliment his spanking fetish.
When you tell him you don't like it, that will probably be the end of the relationship.
2006-09-13 02:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't like it. If you are in a long enough relationship to be having sex with him then you two should be plenty close enough to have this conversation. If you don't know him that well, then honey you are just sleeping around, and should really consider stopping.
2006-09-13 02:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said you are his BIG BOTTY!!... I think he likes himself too much, he is a SADISM, he is not respectful, and it seens at the opposite that you are asensetive one( without hurting his feeling(!!!),without making him feel like a bad lover(!!) so he doen't deserve you.. you have to back off, he was not a last man in the world , and you are not a mean girl.
2006-09-13 02:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jaberoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex is great but stop spanking me
2006-09-13 02:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by DeaconFrost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋