i havent have sex in about 3months,my husband became the worst lover i ever had.we r in marrige about 2 years,i think sex-problems became 2 early,i am not sure do i still love him,what 2 do,what 2 say,i tried 2 talk about it but ......any good advice,please
2006-09-13 02:36:48 · 18 answers · asked by EMMA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give him a potato sandwich ROFLMAO hahahhahahaha
2006-09-13 02:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's likely that you still love him, you're still there aren't you?
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2006-09-13 02:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be more specific in your sexual demands from your husband. Ask him if he is concerned about it too? He may be afraid to displease you and that is why he hasn't had it with you for 3 months. I have found that when you try to please your mate he will in turn try to please you but you must be specific with what it is you need and want. Don't rely on telepathy. You can always enter into sex therapy. Are you sure you aren't a sex addict?That can contribute alot of discontentment with one's spouse. Are you sure you really loved him when you married him? Love grows and compensates as time goes on and the first few years of marriage are often difficult and transitional.
2006-09-13 02:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you should do is start masterbating. if you dont do it now. Im not being a perve. This is to show your self what you like first. Learn to please your self. When you know how to please your self tell your husband that he isn't pleasing you. Tell him there will be no sex unless he submits to your needs as well as his. Tell him what you like tell him how to do it and where to hit the spot. If this dosnt work try going to a sex thearapist. They are great.
2006-09-13 02:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, was the sex this bad before the marriage? If so i dont know why you married him. Sex is HUGE part of marriage. Thats why alot of marriages dont last. Kimora and Russell Simmons separated because she said he couldn't f.u.c.k.
2006-09-13 02:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rent some good porn flicks and get some new ideas for him. If that doesn't work, find a lover.
2006-09-13 02:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chile get him some Viagra or better yet just purchase you a really good dildo and handle ya business.
2006-09-13 02:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Introduce new things in the bedroom. He may be just as bored as you are. Surprise him with roadhead, a *******, etc.
2006-09-13 02:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mystress 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play "teacher" and "pupil" and show him what you want done
get a "romance" or sex game from some place like Spencers and play
2006-09-13 02:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by island3girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better learn how to satisfy urself , know it sux.... trust me i know.. but thats about all that u can do.. and invest in alot of toys..
2006-09-13 02:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋