I'm only asking for a few times a week not every day. She wants only three times a month.
2006-09-13 02:35:48 · 23 answers · asked by Paka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, this is not an unfamiliar question for me. I have two brothers who's wives are the same way. One of my sisterinlaws hates sex all together. My brother is constantly pleading with her for affection. My other brothers wife is so career driven that she is often too tired for it. I think what it is for a lot of women is that once they feel comfortable in a relationship they feel that sex is not always a top priority. Look, this is just my opinion only. I happen to enjoy sex myself immensely and desire it every day twice a day. This might sound piggish but thats me. Everyone is different. Talking with your wife is critical. Letting her know what you feel and what your needs are are important but you must also listen to what her wants and needs are too. Not everyone is into sex the same way. Some people are into sex more than others b/c that is their way of expressing their love and desire for another. I am not a good communicator always to people and yet I feel the best way to tell my man I love him is thru sex. But if your wife isnt into it like you, that doesnt mean she doesnt love you or your not important, it just means her schedule might be full with other priorities like kids, bills, etc. Heres one last thing to think about, sometimes when a woman is upset with her man she resists sex. I know one time my sisterinlaw was upset with my brother b/c he's constantly a procrastinator with everything. She would literally get turned off by him whenever he wanted sex b/c she felt like why should she give him sex when he never follows thru with anything. She was resenting him. So these are things to think about. The other thing to ask your wife is does sex hurt her physically or is there something maybe you do she just doesnt like? Not to upset you dude, but woman are funny and dont always speak up so ask. Good luck. I'll be wishing lots of sex to come your way! LOL.
2006-09-13 03:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Uncertainty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This grew to become into the factor the place many adult men the two provide up, get completely annoyed, or maybe have an affair. Your interest is to pamper her to the severe. %. up some extra chores, and supply her an afternoon on the spa-on the instant! do no longer wait. Get a sitter for her a week despite if she desires it or no longer. Do something AND each thing to furnish her a wreck from the youngsters. My spouse had the right comparable difficulty happen and he or she elderly particularly in those few years with 3 toddlers (2 in diapers). It almost destroyed our marriage. no longer on the exterior, yet interior our recommendations and targets of what it could be like Take action. talk together with her and enable her understand you will do something to alleviate her exhaustion. Her sexual force DID come again whilst the youngsters have been some years older. AND, it got here lower back in tension! She is so rather sexy and often needs intercourse daily with me now. grew to become into it relatively worth waiting for...confident!
2016-12-18 09:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case it was the antidepressant I was on. It was paxil then after finding out that didn't work, I tried celexa. They helped with depression but the sex drive went out the window. It was horrible. I could almost reach (my peak), then I couldn't...., It just didn't happen for me anymore. Getting off the stupid medication was worse than anything I ever felt. My husband thought I was going nuts but I wasn't. We found out by communication with my doctor, that this was just a few signs of the side effects. Well I didn't take the medication for about two weeks of (hell) , I could perform my wifely duties and things got back to normal. Hoped this helped.
2006-09-13 02:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a problem! ask ur wife y she is doing this, i am a woman married for 7 yrs and i still have sex 5-7 times a week and love it. maybe she has a medical problem. has she been depressed? go to the doctor with her. if her sexual appitite was ok b4 and now its less then there has to be medical.
she can have a hormonal imbalance. o
otherwise mastrabate as much as u want thats the only way
2006-09-13 02:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if there's a middle ground...will she talk dirty while you masturbate?Engage in oral?Rent you some naughty movies?Try to be more romantic and seduce her with candles,massages,bubblebaths.Ask if there is anything more that you could be doing to contribute to her satisfaction.As an option of last resort explain that this is pulling you farther apart,that your needs are not being fufilled and that you are worried about compatibility down the road.Maybe it'll give her a wake up call.GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-13 02:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by lotsalovetanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man. She is your wife. Make her want you. Don't go cheating her, for God's sake, she is your wife. You can always talk things. And i think it's your task to make her want you more. And concentrate on love making instead of sex. Make things more friendly betweep the two of you and more be more loving. And if things don't work out then, you better get some professional help. Lol.
2006-09-13 02:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by yoyoyo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be you that is causing your wife's lack of libido. Are you being nice enough to her? Women require different things than men to get in the mood. Men look at a picture of breasts or legs, or look at a pretty woman on the street and we get turned on. Women on the other hand require a lot of hand holding, talking, snuggling, etc to get in the mood. I realize this situation stinks, but we all have to deal with it.
Or it could be you wife is getting some on the side...
2006-09-13 02:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would suggest is that you make sure she is receiving pleasure from the act. If she is not, then there is no reason for her to want to have sex if its not orgasmic for her. If you do please her then try suggesting some type of pill for women. In most cases, a lower testosterone levels is what causes low sex drive in men and women.
2006-09-13 02:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by crystalnwatson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn thats sucks
u need to sit down and ask her what is going on
do not whine or complain
just simply ask her in a nice way
how come u dont want it as much
also compliment her that she is beautiful (cuz maybe she doesnt like her body anymore)
get to the root of the problem
ask questions maybe u r not doing her right
u may never know until u ask with out pressuring her
2006-09-13 03:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I don't know what to say. Umm, get a mistress. Or talk it out with her? Sit her down and tell her that she isn't meeting your needs. Did you both have more sex while you were unmarried? Think on why she might have changed with you. Find out if you did something to offend her in bed. It seems to me that there's more to the story than you know.
2006-09-13 02:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mystress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋