Hi,
I am curious about this spanking thing. I am talking about an adult nonsexual spanking. How can I find someone to spank me without having to worry about the persons bad intentions. I want to be safe, but I have decided that I NEED a spanking.
I am totally screwing up my life and think that a spanking or two could get me back on track. I do not want to be beaten, but could use a good old fashion spanking. You know the kind that children get when they are growing up, nothing sexual.
I think that the best way to start would be hand on butt. I have no interest in getting it anywhere else, but am open to getting a paddle or a belt if I have done something really bad.
If anyone has information on this or wants to share something...I am listening.
Is this strange? I would also like this service for free.
By the way I am a white female.
2006-09-13 02:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by Not ready to share yet 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
OK, that site doed NOT describe what I am interested in. I am talking about a disiplinary spanking. Over the knee like a little girl who has done something bad.
I am NOT intrested in being tied or bound. NO doing whatever a man tells me or any of that crap and NO sex.
2006-09-13 02:41:05 · update #1
I do understand what you are talking about, but what you ask for ... very rare. Many of the spankers out there are not simply disciplinarians, but want a bit more from the individuals that they spank. Now, I do believe that spanking does help those who feel that they need it. It is a very good means of straightening yourself out, getting things in order, and setting priorities because it is an excellent deterrent.
I would only say that you need to keep a very open mind about receiving a spanking (or two). Spankings do not make you change your mode of thought directly ... you must also want to change as well. It sounds like you do, but you would need to keep that in mind before, during, and after a spanking session.
As a spanker/disciplinarian, I can tell you that it works. It is very effective, and does have a profound effect. But as a person who is being spanked, one must submit trustfully to the person who is issuing the spanking. In other words, it's not up to you to say that the spanking is over, and get up ... there is a rapport that needs to be established before any spanking sessions are set up.
It is a service that you can get for free, from certain people. Personally, I think it's something that a spanker would do for someone who is in need of such discipline, particularly if it's just once or twice. You should be open to the possibility that it may be more than that ... more than one or two, but that would need to be discussed in greater detail.
Also, one more note ... I don't believe that a person is bad, but that a person may make a bad choice or make bad decisions. It's very important to make accurate descriptions for this type of discipline, because it is supposed to lead to a greater sense of independence (with dependence on life and Love). It is a way for a person to add to their lives, and not to be submissive in such a way that they ultimately become dependent on the disciplinarian. That is what I do ... I discipline, yes, but the ultimate goal is to reach a point where discipline is no longer required, and the practice of doing what is right, and following goodness, prevails.
2006-09-14 01:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The majority of adults who are into spanking regard it as an erotic game, but there are some - though I'm not one of them - who are able to treat it as something purely disciplinary. Your best bet, I suggest, would be to join one or more of the better spanking sites, such as SIN (Spanking InterNet), Our Castle, Spanking Classics, Spank Me Yahoo Group, etc. Chat, post messages, get to feel comfortable with the site and the people who visit it, and then start looking for someone you can trust who can fulfil your needs. If you make it quite clear what you want - as you have here - with luck you'll find him/her quite soon.
2006-09-13 03:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well being into that type of stuff as well, i would say try meeting the person first somewhere public or for coffee or something....and try to remember not all people have bad intentions....by the way im a white male who would love to spank you just how you want it and my intentions are good
2006-09-19 08:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt there is a nonsexual adult spanking. I suppose you would be bare bottomed for it???
2006-09-13 02:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY what you're craving............because I've had the same cravings. I'd love to help if you're interseted. I am an attractive, athletic, very nice, but firm white male. Light brown hair, blue eyes. email me
2006-09-20 07:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yahoo groups Midatlanticdomesticdiscipline
I manage this group we can talk if you email me I am the Male HOH in a domestic discipline marriage and my wife gets what you are needing almost daily
2006-09-18 01:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Scarecrow of Romney Marsh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place an ad, man. Stranger things have happened.
2006-09-13 02:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Misty D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm.........A spanking is what you want, huh? I'll be right over!
2006-09-13 02:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://esquire.mondosearch.com/cgi-bin/MsmGo.exe?grab_id=0&EXTRA_ARG=GO.X%3D0%00%26GO.Y%3D0&CFGNAME=MssFind.cfg&host_id=42&page_id=2560&query=master&hiword=MASTERLY%20MASTERY%20MASTERING%20MASTERED%20MASTERS%20master%20
2006-09-13 02:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋