2006-09-13 02:16:02 · 30 answers · asked by sina2sona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looking without touching is ok. Men are visual creatures. If they see a beautiful woman, they will look at her, regardless of how happy he is in the relationship. It doesn´t mean he´s not satisfied, it´s just a natural reflex.
2006-09-13 02:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this happened when you were dating, why did you marry him?
He is disrespecting you and your marriage. You will have to confront him on this and get marriage counseling.
I am a man and I never did this even when I was not married, if I found someone attractive I would ask them on a date, not look at them like some kind of animal. I don't care how the woman is dressed, men should overt your eyes. Women who dress provocativley had no self respect either. And women this type of dress is not cute, it is a measure of your moral integrity. too bad most of you won't get what I have just said.
Self respect reciprocates respect to others. He does not respect himself.
My father showed me by example how to treat a woman by how he treated my mother and how he acted in public.
To bad there are not enough fathers like mine or this place would be a better world.
I hope the best for you and I am sorry to hear you are being disrespected so horribley.
2006-09-13 14:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone looks at other people, not just men. Unfortunately men are just more obvious about it. I don't care who they are or what they say, people check out other people all the time. Some people don't even realize they do it. Why? Because IT IS NORMAL!! You guys are married, but you're still human. As long as you're alive, you'll look. Just as long as he isn't making comments or being too obvious, it shouldn't be a problem. If he is then he is just being disrespectful and you need to tell him. If has nothing to do with being satisfied with you.
2006-09-13 09:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men their eyes wonder no matter what as long as he is not going after them and he is coming home to you then don't worry about anything. That doesn't mean that he is not satisfied with you he is just checking out his surroundings if he wasn't satisfied with you he would probably let you know and he wouldn't have married you. Just relax and if it gets too out of control then you just have to set a couple boundaries and let him know....that it bothers you and you want him to stop checking them out so much because you feel bad about him looking else where. Good luck...and if that doesn't work turn the tables around and check out men just too see his reaction and so he can understand fully what you mean.
2006-09-13 09:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is an inconsiderate jerk. The more you complain about it the more he will do it. He probably has a warped control issue. You can't control what another person does you can only control your own reaction. Why should he get to stir the pot at home if he is window shopping in someone else's kitchen? Tell him the kitchen is closed. Start doing things to make you feel good and don't be so readily available to do everything for him.
2006-09-13 09:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry. It's a guy thing. I'm head over heels completely in love with my girl and I still look around. It's not even like, "whoa look at the body on her" it's more like observation. I don't want to be with any of them and I'm completely content where I am, my head is just on the swivel. It really is a "guy thing". I've never once said, "I wish she looked like that" or "what would it be like to get with her?" it's just looking. That's just me though. If it's a problem with your hubby, I'd bring it up in a non-confrontational way. The worst that could happen is he knows that you feel insecure about that and he'll be able to comfort you and maybe become aware and curb his behavior a little.
2006-09-13 09:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by ubiquitousmee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT!!
I know it hurts because it feels like there is something missing or he wouldn't be looking else where.
But the truth of the matter is that people wear bright colors, girls have long flowing hair, out eyes are alive and working! We will turn, like for instance in taking our driving license, they test out peripheral vision, we don't know its there up until we turn and see what is there, they don't alert us to hey so you see the blinking light to the far left or far right of you? NO, our eyes do their thing.
I hope this is of some kind of help, I am still having to do this myself. Either way, there is NOTHING wrong or missing and you are good if not better than those girls, have confidence and know that if he were to stray, his loss. Best wishes
2006-09-13 09:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by chula1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean that he is not satisfied with you.. don't mind but i think that your husband is unfaithful to you because t is his nature... i dont know whether you are an indian or from some other place... if you are an American orr British than it is natural at your place to keep a girlfriend besides a wife.... but if you are an Indian than it is a thing to get upset about....
2006-09-13 13:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Pummi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal for a guy to look at the other ladies and it had nothing to do with not being satisfied with you.
2006-09-13 09:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt mean that he is not satisfied, some men have a wandering eye thats it, now if he acts upon it yes then he is not satisfied, like you can look but no touching
2006-09-13 09:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋