I can't wait to get them especially the sented oil! Any Ideas?
2006-09-13 02:15:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Considering I'm the owner of Just A Little Naughty, who also sells the same kind of stuff.......your husband needs to look at it as NON threatening. These are things you can use TOGETHER. There is QUITE a difference in the bedroom when things get more spicey. :-) Tell him to relax and enjoy while you introduce him to the products you bought.
And if he's concerned about the "toy" you may have purchased...perhaps you can show him how it's used.....and then he can try it with you. He'll be very turned on, AND will be wanting to host another 'toy' party for more goodies.
Good luck!
Jeanne
2006-09-13 04:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband before they even get there. Don't talk about it during the moment. While you are cuddling on the couch or something just say "I really can't wait to try the oil with you. Wouldn't it be fun if we _______________" Just keep telling him how much you can't wait to experiment with him. He probably is just feeling inadequate. Don't just wait until the products get there and whip them out though. That is too sudden and will just reinforce his feelings of inadequacy.
2006-09-13 09:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by jennypoo803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding.......Let him join in the fun. My boyfriend and I use all different toys and oils and wax. Thats what sparks it up in the bedroom. Maybee you want to try out your new toys alone first, pending on if this is a first time thing for you. Then work it from there, dont be shy bust them out on him do what it take to make YOU happy and him......lol Goodluck
2006-09-13 09:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you bought this stuff to have fun with him, NOT to replace him! Guys have very sensitive egos, they feel that if you buy a "replacement" for their tool that you don't need them anymore. Let him have some fun with it with you... he'll think he's "the man" when you explode into multiple orgasims!
2006-09-13 10:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by michs96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have other ideas, I would suggest that you assure your husband that he cannot be replaced by things. Your actions may make him lose confidence in your sexual relations.
Let him know that he will have to play a major role and is indispensible.
2006-09-13 09:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy he feels this way because the sex you get from him is going to be mind-blowing..!TRUST me - men are intimidated by sex toys and always want to prove to their women that they are better than some damn piece of plastic or whatever toys you have....have fun
2006-09-13 09:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to chill out, if you were going to replace him it wouldn't be with substitute items, you'd go for the real thing.
2006-09-13 09:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah let him know that if he was doing his job in the bedroom he wouldnt have to feel so damn guilty about that hes not.. insecurity is a "bit*h"
2006-09-13 09:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a little insecure. Play together with your new things!
2006-09-13 09:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by shellb7088 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with the scented oils, people can be allergic to those.
2006-09-13 09:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋