last year at this time my son mom made a big deal of sending clothes with him said it was my responsibility which i can understand my thinking tho is i pay child support sum of which is 2 be used for clothing but instead of telling me what she was gonna do she just sends him with no clothes keep in mind she had a bf at the time now she being very flexible sending clothes giving me toll money for dropping off my son and offering to buy stuff for my house for his game system i have found out she no longer has a bf so my question is more for the ladies do u think he was influencing her and if so y would a woman listen to a bf when u need to establish sum type of good rapport with the parent
2006-09-13 02:02:52 · 9 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she being flexible now is the way she was b4 i got married
2006-09-13 02:04:03 · update #1
I think your ex really needs to grow up. Her sending your son to you with no clothes etc is disgusting and I really don't care if it was her now ex b/f that was influencing her choices back then, the fact is she acted irresponsibly and you should bring her up on this as it's your son that is suffering becasue his mother can't stand and be a mother first and in a relationship second. KIDS COME FIRST AND ADULTS CAN FEND FOR THEMSELVES....SHE NEEDS A KICK UP THE @RSE!!!!! Im a single mum of three and my kids come first, no if's but's or maybe's........tell her to pull her head in and grow up or your going for custody.!!!!
2006-09-13 02:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is rethinking some things, yes it is very possible that her bf was influncing her alot in the since of discouraging her from supporting her child like she needed too. Or something finally click and she relized that her son is important and she needs to help out. But hey she could be thinking about you and her as a couple again, you never know. How about you go ask her, yall may not be together but you sure can talk. Go talk to her about how she is feeling and why the aditude change.
2006-09-13 09:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women will let others interfere with their decisons when their is a babies daddy scenario, same for guys as well. Just take care of your child and make sure her boyfriends influencing on her dont affect the relationship you have with your child.
2006-09-13 09:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be the case! Just in case though I would suggest to keep some clothes for your son at your place for him. As long as you make sure he wears what he came to your house in back home and clean. It should be fine!!
2006-09-13 09:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the bf could've been influencing her like you said. She probably wanted to make him happy and pretty much did as he said. Luck for you, the *sshole is gone and it's back to normal. I just hope it doesn't happen again with the next bf.
2006-09-13 09:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think she might be growing up and acting like an adult. Good luck!
2006-09-13 09:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by jujub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don really get you Q.
Please Redo it.
2006-09-13 09:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don´t understand your question, sorry.
2006-09-13 09:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here
2006-09-13 09:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋