2006-09-13 01:51:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-09-13 01:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by KathyS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this depends a great deal on the individual. However, I think that, when we are teens, we often feel much more mature than we actually are. Sadly, a lot of people who rush to have sex in their teens regret it later in life. Sex is fantastic in the right circumstances (with someone you love and trust). However, it is also very dangerous and entails a lot of responsibilities that most teens aren't ready to handle.
Ask yourself a few questions when trying to decide whether or not to have sex. If sex resulted in pregnancy, would you be ready emotionally and financially to raise the child? How would you handle it if you learned you had contracted an STD? If your parents found out you were having sex, what would your reaction be? Their reaction? If your partner's parents found out you were having sex, what would happen? Are you ready for all of these responsibilities?
When you do decide to have sex, be sure to protect yourself and your partner. Use a condom each and every time. Remember, though, that condoms are not 100% protective.
Finally, even though it might seem like "everyone" else is having sex, it isn't true. Many might be, but many aren't. It doesn't make you cool to have sex or uncool to be a virgin. Sex is a personal thing, so don't allow yourself to be pressured into doing it before you are ready.
Good luck!
2006-09-13 11:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by shawnabobonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are committed for life in a marriage. Having sex always includes the possibility of a baby. . . ALWAYS because there is NO safe sex (I don't care what you hear here or anywhere else).
Sex is not just a physical release. It is a joining of you to another person and as a result the persons must consider the emotions involved (including guilt, being exposed to each other and possibly your parents and others, remorse, and worry about pregnancy). Your maturity level is involved due to the fact that you may find yourself repulsed by the person you have had sex with (because they gave in to you or didn't wait for sex or any number of other things). You also have to be mature enough to handle the emotional, psychological, and financial issues you might have to deal with if pregnancy occurs. You can't just walk away from a pregnancy. The child you conceive will be with you for life and YOU and YOUR PARTNER are responsible for brining that life into being.
Because you are physically capable of having sex does NOT mean you are ready for sex.
2006-09-13 11:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone should put a number on sex. I was a completly different person when I was 14 than my sister was. Every child grows differently. And that's the point, they're children. If I could choose for my children, I would hope they wait until their late teens, at least.
It's not a great idea for kids to get involved in something that forces them to make adult decisions. The fact is, every kid thinks they're immortal, and nothing can happen to them.
2006-09-13 11:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sera B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there is no age. It all depends on how you feel about it. I personally am waiting until I get married. But if you are in a relationship and are commited and KNOW for sure you love each other and thats what you want to do, then I guess its ok. But it would probably be better if you waited until you were married so you know your commited. People have sex with people they dont really love but just think they love, and they regret it later.
2006-09-13 15:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by SinginChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are able to deal with the complications sex can bring such as; pregnancy [you'll need a job to take care of your baby if its yours, STDs, bad reputation, busted condom syndrome [fear beyond fears], someones angry parents. Go on ahead and have all the sex you want, as long as you can deal with all that go nutz.
Seriously, though. There is only so much the human body can do and you will get bored quickly. Also, sex is best enjoyed with someone you love.
2006-09-13 13:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In term of Singapore law, below 14 is consider as rape even consent given. 14 - 16 is protected under woman charter. It's only legal to have sex with teen at 13 years old, unless she is your wife.
2006-09-14 01:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now-a-days 14 year olds have sex. But i think a good age is 17 or 18. Trust me, it's worth the wait.
2006-09-13 12:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pink Princess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no right or wrong age... the age you loose your virginity should depend on the person. anything younger than sixteen i would have to say dont do it! you will regret it i promise. just wait until you are finished with school and in a serious commited relationship... if you have to ask you are not ready.. dont rush
2006-09-13 15:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, If you can afford to raise a baby, pay bills and work without being on welfare and you have a stable life and a serious partner then you are old enough to have sex.
2006-09-14 10:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋