2006-09-13 01:36:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You would first have to rephrase the question. If you already know, why do you need to find out? If you were suspicious, then I figure you would be or not be interested in finding out. In any case, I would like to know. There are too many venerial diseases out there now, especially AIDS, that I would like to know. I myself would not have sex with my partner, but some may opt to stay together and in that case, I would recommend safe sex (condoms) although that is not 100% reliable. Once your partner has cheated on you, there is no guarantee that it is only a one time experience and if it happened it is usually because something is lacking in your relationship to begin with. Once the respect and trust is lost, there is no going back and start again.
2006-09-13 01:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to find out. I would need to know why they did what they did and why would they enter into a relationship with me if all they were going to do was go off and cheat. I would need closure and also to break-up with them in person and to show and tell them that they just missed out on the greatest thing to ever enter there life and that they blew it. So they can go home now and Cry Me a River because I would have had enough crying and racking my brain on why.
2006-09-13 08:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to find out..
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2006-09-13 08:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated on me. And although life was bliss when I was blind, in the end when I was told I was thankful that I was no longer the laughing stock of my town and was able to kick him out and get on with life. I was better for it.
2006-09-13 08:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely want to know. My wife and I agreed from the beginning that the only deal breaker in our relationship would be cheating.I would approach him in a non confrontational manner and try to get into his head. The best way to know is to look into his eyes when he talks to you. If you really know your husband you should be able to detect if something is really going on.
2006-09-13 08:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were over and gone, there is no reason to find out and be harmed. Of course if hes getting her brains banged out every dy, thts another story
2006-09-13 08:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it,Honey-you ask if you KNEW your spouse was cheating,would you want to know? HUH?
2006-09-13 08:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go looking for it but if the evidence was apparent then I would quickly and quietly start moving assets before I revealed my knowledge of it.
2006-09-13 08:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with michelle. If I was being cheated on I would want to know, so I could kick his butt to the curb!
2006-09-13 08:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The knowledge would only do us harm. Finding that out could lead to divorce, which would be bad for our children.
2006-09-13 08:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋