i like a guy , he works in Office , he is really a handsome guy. But we are un known to each other .he somebody who i see in my dreams.Please help me or gimme some advice what to do???
2006-09-13 01:35:46 · 13 answers · asked by cute_riya81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK....well he is what you desire? right well how do you know what hes like....he could be in your dreams but how do you know if his personality is a blank peace of paper? how do you know weather he could be the biggest jerk? my advise to you is to actually talk to him. get to know him, and let him know you exist. its very possible that he does notice you and he may feel the way you do. how will you ever know if you don't explore. well good luck, hope everything works out.
2006-09-13 02:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by jarrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he works in the same office .. it's always easy to get his attention. like, run to the lift when he is inside, so that he keeps it opens for u. then give a nice smile, thank him and introduce urself.
He might react odd .. if he shy kind. don't worry.. try a simple "hi" next time. chose some place where u can exchange a few words .. like near a coffee vending machine etc. u can always talk ab't the weather .. or his project/department related stuffs.
a few such small interactions will build ur confidance, and of course u can then have a better idea ab't his interest level in u.
if it works out .. we can discuss the further course of action .. BEST OF LUCk
2006-09-13 01:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It is really easy to talk to that guy the only thing you have to do is the first step. Go to him, smile and you can start by "do you have the time please" it is an old thing but still working then, tell him it's the first time that i see you in the office since when are you working here. After that introduce yourself and trust me the conversation will follow.
The more difficult is not to have a conversation with a guy, it is more difficult to keep him...
A guy will really appreciate that you make the first move...Am i wrong guys?
Good luck..;)
2006-09-13 01:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by boule1102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purposely run into him (not literally), and afterwards introduce yourself and theres a good start, If he seems the least bit interested make sure to "run into" him again and try to have a conversation with him and if that go's fine, ask him out to lunch the next time you "run into" him.
2006-09-13 01:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be friends with him.
Dont let him all you feel for him at the present.
Just try to talk to him professionaly as you are at the same working place.
2006-09-13 01:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and try spending your time practicing your English writing skills.
2006-09-13 01:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try saying "hello"...What does he have to drink in the morning? Offer to get him one and introduce yourself?
2006-09-13 01:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say something like “hey” or something. Or ask if you can borrow something because you lost yours. Make your self visible!
2006-09-13 01:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and introduce yourself
2006-09-13 01:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur really serious abt ur relationship try to be more cautious when approaching...
2006-09-13 01:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by homing2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋