2006-09-13 01:02:01 · 16 answers · asked by isirealyreal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think sometimes it's just so hard to believe that someone actually cares for you. But if you hang in there a deal with it. The person will eventually be able to trust in your feelings for them. Some people who've been hurt in the past just take longer to trust.
2006-09-13 01:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This person has some serious problems. he or she needs to go for some counciling..
Have you asked in what ways they think that you are trying to hurt them.. It does help to talk.. the only way your are going to find out what is really going on with them. and know what they are talking about when they say you are trying to hurt them. Maybe they have been abuse.. you don't say enough to really give us out here and idea of what you mean. As for loving someone like that.. be careful. they are liable to lash out and hurt you..
Why do you love the person.. taking care of someone with that problem is hard..
your not the parent , let someone else do the mothering or the fathering..
think about what it is that you like about them you may want to move on because of this situation.
2006-09-13 08:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they've been hurt in the past. Or maybe you've hurt them in the past and they're finding it hard to get over it.
Talk to them, be kind and supportive.
2006-09-13 08:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this must be a bad sign of not being in love but in charge of each others. It is a burden if i was in your place. There is great misunderstanding or you have a different type of thinking.
2006-09-13 08:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by haya D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be paranoia. That person might want to contact the local community mental health center, and also talk about the problem to their doctor.
2006-09-13 08:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to talk to Dr. Phil, two crazy quacks can communicate with each other.
2006-09-13 08:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then they're insecure and will never be convinced of your innocence. Move on while you can.
Been there, done that, and it wasn't fun at all.
2006-09-13 08:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell them to stop being paranoid and leave their pass behind.
2006-09-13 08:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Twiggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either learn to put up with their insecurities or move on
2006-09-13 08:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him/her... be patient maybe you're crossing the line. what you're doing hurts them. maybe you have to clear everything to them...
2006-09-13 08:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋