but i can't as i little bit respect him
2006-09-13 00:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
hey respet him and don't reply him back may be his mood is not set
2006-09-15 23:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything, look at him straight in the eyes, be still, and in that moment think of how good person you are, how intelligent you are, how far upgraded (from him or others, you decide here) you are. If it helps, count to 10-20 simultaneulsly, because of the risk that you'll catch the "virus' of his words. I have practiced this strategy both on people and animals (hungry street dogs) and it works. The eye contact is the hardest but it is the crucial, because you are sending message of superiority. Do this 4-5 times and he will have much more respect for you and your decisions.
2006-09-13 12:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Wintermute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure him talking to you so rudely is a bad habit that he's allowed to get worse. He probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. Bring it to his attention and tell him it hurts your feelings. Stay calm and be mature. Don't throw it at him in an argument, because that could make it worse. Good Luck:o}
2006-09-13 14:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by laceypantease 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST RESPECT NO MATER WHAT FOR YOUR FATHER IN HEAVEN IS WATCHING AND LISTENING OK THEN PRAY FOR HELP THEN WAIT FOR THE HELP THEN APPROACH YOU FATHER WHEN YOU ARE CALM AND HE IS CALM OR IN GOOD MOOD THEN ASK HIM TO TALK TO YOU OR SAY YOU NEED HELP WITH A VERY SERIOUS PROBLEM GET HIS CONCERN BUT WITH THE RIGHT ATTENTION NEVER DO IT WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY OR HE HIS JUST BE PATIENT OK THEN TELL HIMYOU AR GROWING UP AND NEED TO HAVE MORE RESPECT THAT YOU ARE HUMAN WITH FEELINGS AND MOST OF HIS CHILD THAT DESERVES HIS REPECT AND GUIDIANCE WITH AFFECTIONATE LOVE CAUSE YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART WHEN YOU HAVE CHILDREN IT WILL HURT YOU IF THY EVER EVER TOLD YOU TO SHUT UP SO TAKL RIGHT TO HIM ASK THEN WAIT THIS JUST DON' HAPPEN OVER NIGHT OK OK HE MAY HAVE DRIFTED OR A LOT OF PROBLEMS THAT HE DOES'NT SHARE WITH YOU MEN TND TO KEEP IN SIDE ALOT MAYBE IF YOU PEND TIME TOGETHER THINGS MIGHT CHANGE LITTLT BY LITLE OK SMALL STEPS OK OK THEN IF THAT AFTER ALL AND TIME GIVING HE STILL DOESN'T CHANGE TELL STAIGHT TO HIM WITH GREAT CONFIDENCE THAT YOU LOVE HIM AND YOU NEED THE REPECT BUT IF HE WILL NOT RESOECT YOU AS HIS CHILD THEN YOU WILL ASK GOD TO TAKE OVER AS YOUR FATHER FOR GOD WILL SHOW YOU HIS LOVE AND CONCERN BUT HE WILL CORRECT YOU TOO BUT THE RIGHT WAY WITH LOVE AND GOD LISTENS VERY WELL AND I MEAN VERY WELL REY
2006-09-15 08:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by reynaldo r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him for now because you don't want him to hurt or punish you out of anger. When you can move out, respectfully tell him that he has not respected you. You can be the bigger person and do the right thing.
2006-09-13 08:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Katyana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about the opposite approach? When he is rude, you be exceptionally polite and calm. Don't do it out of fear of course, but just to show him how a civilized person should behave, I think he could figure out that signal for himself. Another way to deal with it is to learn from your mother, to see if she has a good approach to it when your Dad is rude.
2006-09-13 08:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by : ) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you respect him as your adult parent and fear him as the jerk that he is?
Is he sexist towards women ? or all people your age?
If you have open communication with him, tell him how much it hurts your feelings when he talks down to you in a disrespectful manner.
It can't hurt to try to get him to see the light!
If he continues you will lose all respect and love for him and become bitter towards him.
2006-09-13 08:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by a_z4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you snap then yes it would be just nice.
Except it wouldn't be nice, hopefully that scenario can be avoided.
Try to tell him in a direct and civilised manner, what you expect of him.
You can attempt to shut him up and then apologise later if you think it would work.
2006-09-13 08:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by lkraie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Shut up" -- them's fighting words!!!
Try talking with your Dad about his objective. If he really wants to communicate with you, then he can try to respect you. If he just wants to verbally abuse you, talk to a counsellor or the police.
2006-09-13 08:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ever Learn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the room. That'll be the best for both
2006-09-13 09:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to exactly tell him to shut up, you can just pretend that you're not listening to him when he's being ruuuuuude, or you can just go quitley and tell him that you don't like the way he talks to you!!!!!
good luck
2006-09-13 07:57:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋