just curious if sometimes you think you're the worst version of yourself these days...
2006-09-13 00:43:04 · 26 answers · asked by empress_pam 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I don't hate myself...but yes sometimes I am disappointed by my path in life , some of my choices
2006-09-13 00:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think i can answer this truthfully coz i have been going thru the most painful times of my existence. i have changed a lot and now sometimes do things i imagined i would never do eg scream on people or be rude.
but sometimes it is destiny and sometimes circumstances make you the way you are.
my suggestion is to introspect( which i think you are doing most beautifully by asking such a ques) and correct your self, be more self aware and try and get away from negative feelings or negative people or shut down when someone is negative or you feel negative.
would like to chat with you if yu are interested, coz i am lonely most of the time
2006-09-13 07:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by is_cupid_stupid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically two things I dislike about myself. I'm in my mid-40's and I wish I had my mid-20's body back. I think that's fairly typical of most people so I've learned to live with that.
My biggest concern is my negativity. I've had some major challenges in my life in the past 5 years. I've gotten to the point where I'm hurt, disappointed, so busy with responsiblities to others that there's no "me time" - and it's mentally stressed me and made my outlook less positive than I used to be.
2006-09-13 07:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really.
There are times when I look back and see that I had not done the right thing or not behaved as I would like to.
But I have never hated who or what I have become.
Becuase I love myself.
I don't hate myslef.
It is almost impossible for me not to love myself.
And that enables me to love other genuine people too.
Like your question Empress.
2006-09-13 08:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager ,i hated being ME .
I was born with a bi-lateral cleft palate. A birth defect.
I was always made fun of .I talked funny and was not totally normal in appearance.
I had wonderful parents and family who assured me of one thing .
I am a good ,kind and caring human being.I alway help others and love animals ,nature,beauty,art and music.
When i got older and the teasing stopped ,i kept my love for life .
I like me and it doesn`t matter what people say about me .
I am confident that I made my parents proud .
I am Proud to be ME.
2006-09-13 08:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as i look back as to what i was ten years ago and to what i am today,I'm happier now then i was then.
i have laid to rest three husbands and divorced one and now i have a new husband and it's getting better.
i have gone through a lot in my life time and wasted most of my life on things that took me no where,
today I'm better for going through it and seeing how much more i have become.
i haft to learn by my past lessons and try to make ME better for the now.
I'm RN and going to be a social worker and love to see how much more i can help others to find the good in them.
my greatest love is my new husband because he understand me and cares for me and gives me the learning tools i need to make me a better person.
oh what love can change for ones life.
2006-09-13 12:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing has worked the way I wanted in life. But life is like a deck of cards. You make the most of the cards you have. To whom much is given much is expected and to whom less is given, less is expected. Then you don't hate what you have become.
2006-09-13 07:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Emmanuel H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a too strong a word. I would say disappointed with some of the stuff I've handled in life.
That's all you need to know.
2006-09-13 10:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good days and bad days you know...
But I do admit that I'm my worst critic, everything I do is constantly critiqued and torn apart. It takes other people to convince me that I'm doing all right.
I guess it helps in thriving for perfection in what I do, but it's so emotionally draining, I'd rather do okay and be happy with it.
2006-09-13 07:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jmyooooh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, we all get like that somtimes. dont dispair, just take some time, maybe a week off from work or school, go somewhere alone and where you can think. finding out whats wrong or whats missing in your life is somthing you can only do on your own. but beleave me honey, your sooo not alone right now.
2006-09-13 07:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by srsgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋