I had a fight with my close guy friend and now he is not talking to me.what to do ?

Question

We had a misunderstanding and I was a lil hard on him, i avoided him for a couple of days then after I cooled off, I tried several times to call him.. but he does not take my calls.. Does he hate me ? If so what do I do ? I have apologised many times... I really dont want to lose him..

Answer 1

Sometimes peole just need a little time. They don't mean to let so much time go by, but sometimes that's what it takes. So be patient and give him some time.

I had a really good friend who was selling her car, she needed money to get caught back up on on bills. I needed a car and all I had was 500. I thought we were friend helping a friend.

I gave her cash, thnking I would have the car after the weekend because there was a couple things that needed fixed and I didn't get it when I was suppose to.

I think it probably took up to 2-3 months to get both the car and title. When I got it, the tail light did get fixed, but the breaks and the something else didn't get fixed, something to do with the transmission fluid leaking. Then I find out the breaks were in the trunk, which is good, but the trunk was leaking.

Needless to say this was like about March of 2002 and didn't talk to her till like I guess winter 2003 or spring of 2004.

We were both going to college at the time and happened to run into each other and it started off you know hi, how you doing bye.

But after a while....Things were good again. I still remember and still hurt by it, but we talk and hang out again.

Answer 2

Give him time. If he doesn't forgive and forget, then he's too petty and doesn't deserve you. It will be better for you to forget about him and start a new chapter of your life without him!

Answer 3

Tell him u r sorry and hopefully he will talk to you...i had the same problem with my girl friend.