we were doing works on the building and spending lots of money. We also have the appliances and bought the bathroom and accessories. Now they do not want me to move in their house. I have receipts of all the things I bought but the building is still theirs.
Do I have any rights to move out what I bought and ask them for the money we spent on the building? My boyfriend wants to leave as soon as possible because since they do not want me, then he does not want to have anything to do with them he says. I told him to stay until we can find a way to move out our things without arguments.
What do you suggest we do? I am really worried they will break all our things which we bought with a loan we are still paying!
2006-09-13 00:08:39 · 10 answers · asked by trushka 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My first thought here is that you say they "gave" you the house. Is this in writing? Did you legally buy it and pay the mortgage? If so, the in-laws have no business telling you or your boyfriend they can't live there. If they "gave" you the house and its in their name, your in trouble. It almost seems as though they set you up. They wanted you to move into the house for a time, fix it up and then kick you out. I would advise any of the following: Get your stuff out of the house including all the stuff you paid for. If you have receipts for it, they can't keep it. Remember, if you decide to leave your stuff there, the owner of the house is not required to keep your stuff for you. They are not a storage unit. OR If you are paying the mortgage or paying rent, you have a legal right to be there. Don't worry about them damaging any property because if you have all the reciepts, you can take them to small claims court. Whatever you choose to do, take lots of pictures of the house and everything you own. You never know when you'll have to show a judge the "before" and "after".
2006-09-13 01:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by lyricsop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have evidence 2 prove that u paid 4 appliances etc in the house that they verbally agreed 2 giving u, then u r by law intitled 2 being reinburst for the expenses or have all of the items returned 2 u in gd condition. If, however, they r un willing 2 compromise u r able 2 take them 2 small claims court. Keep all receipts safe as u will need them!!! and if ur feeling like a lil' bit of revengeful u can even sue them 4 pain and suffering! lol!
2006-09-13 00:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family can be a pain! If you have any of this documented you will probably need a lawyer unless they are willing to just give the stuff back or pay you back but your question has left me with a bunch more questions for you about how it all came to be this way.
2006-09-13 00:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek legal advice as soon as possible but as for the appliances ect, get them all out as soon as possible and ask friends if they can store them for you or return them if you can
That is just a shitty thing to do to you both, but at the end of the day it will be them who will lose out as I cant see their son forgiving them any time soon. Or Squat and refuse to move out until you have both found suitable accomodation, I dont know where you are but in Scotland we have squatters rights. Best of Luck to both of you!
2006-09-13 00:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by kookiboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really not too clear. If they are your "in-laws" that would imply you are married to their son. However, you refer to him as your boyfriend. Also, did you legally sign any paperwork on the house? If you did, and the house is in your/boyfriend/husband's name, it is yours. If not, you don't have a leg to stand on. If you don't legally own it, you can ask for your money back (however, I doubt they will pay it). Or you can chalk it up to a "life-lesson". Always get any property given to you legally transferred. Godloveya.
2006-09-13 00:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really take the things AND get the money. If there's things you want to take, take them. Other than that, keep your receipts and go to court about it. If they are fixtures that can't easily be taken and they need, they will have to pay you for them.
2006-09-13 00:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is with you . Great !Why dont the 2 of you'll work towads this . You can sue those people which such documents in the court of law !Go on and believe in YOURSELF.thats the bottomline
2006-09-13 00:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the stuff and see what you will be able to return, you should probably hire a lawyer, i bet you will need one very soon
2006-09-13 00:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your intentions of removing your property. If they give you any problems, sue them.
2006-09-13 00:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by dropkickchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sue them
2006-09-13 00:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋