if they don't like their partners why don't they just leave.
honestly why should people hurt their loved ones.
2006-09-12 23:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have done a lot of things in my life, but thats one thing i can honestly say that im not guilty of. I have never been unfaithful to my ex wife or any of my x girlfriends.
2006-09-13 12:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be many reasons! One of them could be that sometimes people jump at what they want in that moment, instead of what they really want in the end.
There's people that are just heartless and selfish
And there's people that make bad decisions but that doesn't mean that's who they are.
You have to look at their past, and the feelings they have towds themselfs, or in relationships.
Insecurities can play a big part in it sometimes.
I personally think the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a bunch of bull.
People who do drugs because of issues they have within, have recovered.
Cheating can be an emotional problem.
Problems can be fixed.
It can be a habit.
And habits can be broken.
Suggestion is, just don't get involved with someone that you don't have 100% faith in that they can change, or that they have already.
And, figure them out as a person first too. The way they think, the way they handle certian situations, what affects them in relationships (i.e insecurities etc) and their past history. Then, you can answer your own question. :)
2006-09-12 23:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by *Elle Marie* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this off my chest right now. I'm so sick of people saying that people who cheat are selfish. If you could walk a mile in someone elses shoes maybe you could understand. I started out to cheat because there was no intimacy in my relationship at all. Not just physically but emotionally too. It started out as just sex. I have fallen in love with someone I can never have. I love my husband but I haven't been in love for a long time. I've tried to stay thinking things would change. He was diagnosed with cancer last year. I do respect him enough not to leave him like this because I care that much for him. No I never want him to find out and I never want to hurt him. And I feel it is a great sacrafice to stay. But I don't think all people that cheat are bad people just misunderstood. I agree there are some that do it for no reason at all. But everyone categorizes things as black or white and nothing is that simple.
2006-09-13 01:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love slating cheats:-)Cheaters cheat because they think only of themselves-they do not think of the hurt they heap upon children,the humiliation and hurt they heap upon a partner,or the devastation caused to family's,as a whole,by their actions.They are worse than animals,animals do not cheat with other animals,in their kingdom it is the survival of the species that matters above all else-in the cheaters kingdom,it is the self that matters most.Worse than bath scum,i absolutely hate them,they will never get any sympathy from me-and with their "problems"they are very easy to score points off too!!
2006-09-13 00:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they really aren't invested in their relationship. Many people that cheat are very self-centered, they don't think beyond the immediate satisfaction to what they are doing to their love ones. By thinking only of themselves they can ruin the lives of so many people. I call it the McMarriage syndrome, they want to get married but once they're in it they think, humm, that's not enough let me go try something else. It's very destructive behavior.
2006-09-12 23:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cheat because they can and they don;t leave us first because they love us. They really believe they won;t get caught and we'll never know. It doesn't mean they don't love you it just means they think were stupid
2006-09-13 00:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their Boyfriend/Girlfriend doesn't give them what they want.
2006-09-13 00:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bling Bling 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do it because they would like to try something new .. maybe they are tired of their relationships
2006-09-12 23:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who will ever really know........
2006-09-13 00:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋