Should I tell mom, I think she will be very upset, or should i just blame it on my current boyfriend?
2006-09-12 23:34:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ United Kingdom ➔ London
I assure you he was a nice police officer
2006-09-15 00:31:36 · update #1
I'm sure that if you told your mum she'd be very understanding, you are her daughter after all. Also remember what affect this would have on your current boyfriend if you told him the baby was his and it isn't, that's not fair. I think the best way to deal with this is being completely honest.
2006-09-12 23:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mum the truth, even if you know nothing about this police officer, the truth would come out if you blamed your boyfriend. Imagine this scenario, your new baby needs a blood transfusion when he is born or he might die, your boyfriend goes to help, then gets told he is not a match, then you have all that backlash to deal with as well as a sick baby. No, just be honest, it is always better in the end.
2006-09-13 00:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by paradisefound1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I mean, if you're 16 for example, you would be under age in alot of U.S states. However, in most European countries, you wouldn't be under age. So think about that first. Then, I suggest you really think hard about whether you want to keep the baby. If so, you need to tell your boyfriend that you're pregnant and it isn't his doing. (Were you a couple while you in Europe?). You can't let him think it's his. That's probably the worst thing you can do. Hope all works out for you though.
2006-09-12 23:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by snooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police officer will pay child support more readily and the father should have visitation rights. Do what is right for the future child. Two parents are better most of the time.
Of course it matters what your age is too.
2006-09-12 23:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by FrogDog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"in case you notice a police officer violate the regulation,are you able to as a private citizen place the police officer decrease than arrest?" can no longer answer this without understanding what regulation you're speaking approximately and what state or us of a you're asking approximately. something of your question is nonsense.
2016-11-07 05:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not blame it on your bf if it is not his thats not fair and as you are underage he could get in a lot of trouble! Maybe you need to decide if you are mature enough to look after a child anyway
2006-09-12 23:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Moth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Trouble with charges against the police is trying to prove them!
2006-09-12 23:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by cymry3jones 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoyed the sex and having a baby is your souvenir.
Never blame people who are not involved, you carry your responsibilities and find a solution.
2006-09-13 01:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by plie3824 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wasn't such a nice officer if he had unlawful sex with a child
NO you shouldn't blame your boyfriend as dna is available if he has any suspicions at all
2006-09-12 23:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please tell the truth. if you start lying now it will make everything even more complicated. you will be fine. take your time and think this through. be ready for your mums reaction, she will get over the shock and be there for you. dont make any decisions alone. you need to have people around you for support.
--- im back, cant believe what 'virgodoll' said in her answer. is she taking the p**s?! i hope this poor girl has more sense than to listen to people like that. keep it to yourself virgodoll
2006-09-12 23:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋