my friend just split with her husband they have been married for 7 years they have 5 kids together she just walked out she had enough & 3 weeks later she met this guy & has moved in with him . her ex is heart broken & it's akward all around as my husband is best friends with hers & i'm great friends with her i had all the respect for her in the world there was nothing i would'nt do for my friend but do'nt you think she's pushing the cruelty envelope?our kids have all know each other forever. my hubby & i have had great debate in this household now she's pregnant & going to get married to this guy she's 26 & her new guy is 44 her hubby is heartbroken & left with the kids so what do u guys think ?
2006-09-12 22:28:32 · 6 answers · asked by leebeesmum_77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh i know that there are 2 sides to the story lol but the thing is how really do u tell them when they need friends for support to really sort their **** out they are too close to home ? LOL
2006-09-12 22:36:39 · update #1
we were kinda dragged into it as if we do'nt have our own lives !!!!
2006-09-12 22:47:07 · update #2
From the sounds of it, definitely not a good situation for anyone involved. But there are always 2 sides to the story, and sometimes 4. Who knows... we're in no position to judge her. God help those kids and what they're going through though.... having your parents splitting is hard enough without all the extra drama thrown in!
2006-09-12 22:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Woof, she didn't hang around did she? Is there a chance she has been seeing this new guy from when she was still with her husband? What had she had enought of? Sorry, asking too many questions. Heres another, she has 5 kids and already pregnant with another at 26? And she has left her kids with her husband?? She sounds like a total b*tch. Tell her that and comfort your friend. It sounds as though he is really going to need some support. What a cow.
2006-09-12 22:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by rondavous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on the state that he lives in, he could sue her for that. He should get a lawyer and check into it. Then again your a women and that's like a Jew complaining about how he is being treated in a concentration camp. Yea I'm an a** who got taken by a women.
2006-09-12 22:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by rrxdeadman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, she is pushing cruelty evalope way too far, especially if she is marrying him and pregnant!
i hope he (father) has the best of luck and that she (exwife)
rots in hell
2006-09-12 22:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by tim s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she may have post natal depression. I think you should suggest counseling as she is making rash decisions and she may not even realize that she is depressed.
2006-09-12 22:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the decision is not right for the kids first and foremost, let alone for her and him. honestly, if my friend did that i wouldnt even reach out to help.
2006-09-12 22:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋