One of my friends decides to get marry. I ask him, why you wants to marry?
He is still looking for the answer. So I decide to ask to u people for the most valuable answer.
2006-09-12 22:03:40 · 16 answers · asked by Tommy K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
people get married for many reasons ...**i got married because i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with him growing old and gray! he makes me happy when i wake up and i see that we are together to because we love how we make each other feel comfortable, safe, needed, and cared for. i miss him when he is gone and loves how he makes me laugh...i do not need anything more or less just him..we made the commited to take care of each other thru sickness and health...it is about the union of becoming one and the assurance that we'll have a future together
2006-09-12 22:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by gela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons two people decide to marry. But one thing I know for sure, is if we have any strange feelings of doubt....could indicate a red flag so to speak on putting a marriage on hold....or not at all, with this one particular person. Some people will say for sure, we definitely wouldn't ask this question when we feel we have found true love. But most peoples thoughts or fantasy of love and marriage are normally fantasies...Now I do agree that having someone loving, caring, thoughtful, respectful, trustworthy, patient, understanding, forgiving, wanting similar things in life as you dream of...is something to always cherish...It does sometimes depend on the length of time 2 people have known each other, it also may not matter how long you have known each other...It depends on how bad a person wants a marriage, hopefully for all the right reasons, how willing a person wants to share ones self completely with another...there are many wonderful aspects of marriage, there will be troublesome times, and unbelievable moments and times...but with that said it all depends on what we want...and what we are willing to take on...if you feel close enough to your friend, then you might bring up some of these questions and ideas....Best wishes to your friend...
~Peace~
2006-09-14 01:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage makes an incomplete human being a complete one. It makes him/her a grown up and gives him/her responsibilities whether those responsibilities are to feed and clothe the wife or to assist the husband. Marriage is supposed to take a person out of the hectic lifestyle that one is in and place him or her in an organized environment giving them a path to follow in life and a shoulder to lean on. In short marriage arranges one’s life.
2006-09-13 05:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by NoniePK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no idea why he is getting married, he should not. No sense in ruining the lives of 2 people and then brining children into that kind of mess.
2006-09-13 06:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To share your life with the person you love. To show that you are willing to make a lifelong commitment and the relationship you are now going to share together. And to follow in the traditions of our parents and the society that we live in. Sorry to say, divorce is just about as much as a tradition as marriage now.
2006-09-13 05:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bigfoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He/She wants to live with the spouse till death separate them Because they're in love, they want to give the best they can give to their soul mate. And of course raise a family with the spouse.
If your not thinking about raising a family don't get marry :)
2006-09-13 05:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dyonne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tax Purposes
2006-09-13 05:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Perry N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because I want to settle down and have my own family with the person I love under God's blessing (the sacrament of marriage)
2006-09-13 05:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by leelee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should marry only if you are mature enough to face the troubles and trials of life with whom somone you cannot live without.
2006-09-13 05:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married so I guess I don't know the answer to that question.
Maybe because you want to be with just one person and you hope it's for life.
2006-09-13 05:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by Georgie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋