I'm happily married with 2 cute kids....with loving husband...
recently I get in touch back with my long lost online chat mate...he from other country and happily married with 2 kids too...
We chated almost everyday...at work and even at home....never met or even saw his face but i know he is a true person...the crazy thing is I kept thinking about him...and begin to anxiously waiting for him everyday to chat...am I in love with this man....how should I get over it....I love my hb and children...my chat mate knows how i felt and now he tried not to be online so often so that this 'feeling' of mine will go away....(in the way of helping me) but i still missed him....what should I do????
2006-09-12 21:48:18 · 11 answers · asked by macy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmm well! ... This could be happened when we often chat to a person who is very good but I thought this is not love. This a temporary attachment so try to avoid these thing coz this could be affect your personal life. One thing keeps in mind that your main preferences are your husband and your kids not that PERSON ok. I don’t say that you leave that person but don’t let your mind to think about these things. Hope you got what I m trying say ...... best of luck.
2006-09-12 22:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by loving a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very wrong to chat with another man everyday, even online. It's a form of cheating--telling each other all your thoughts, feelings, etc. That should be saved for your husband. If nothing else, sell your computer if you are too weak to stop. I can't imagine why you would jeopardize your relationship with your husband and children for this behavior. If you need something to do, read to those 2 cute kids and play with them. Also, change email servers and do not get in touch with that man again.
2006-09-13 04:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off complete contact with him. You're cheating on your husband, ruining your chat mate's life and being bad to your kids. They all don't deserve it, just because you are in their lives. Focus all this 'chat' energy on your husband and kids, they deserve it more...not some nameless person sitting half across the world who finds its easier to avoid you online rather than reciprocate your feelings. Do yourself, your family and your friend a favour by never contacting this person again. You're cheating and that's always bad.
2006-09-13 04:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a loving husband and 2 cute kids a home, what else do you need, an affair and a divorce certificate too?? Get your priorities right.
2006-09-13 05:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe taking a break from talking to him completely would be best. it sounds like you were heading down a path you did not want to take. distract yourself with other things so that you aren't on the computer all the time. set a limit for yourself so that you have a definite time you have to be off the computer. occupy your mind with other things- like your two kids and husband! (my three kids and husband occupy too much of my mind most of the time!) anyhow try what i have suggested and if it does not work i'd see a professional.....good luck
2006-09-13 04:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by April H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up is what you need to do. You ARE cheating on your husband with this guy and that is adultry. You are living in fantasy land. Go tell your husband you love him before you lose him and the love/respect of your kids. YOU HAVE MUCH TO BE THANKFUL FOR.
2006-09-13 04:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he that important that you would risk losing your family to this man? Better yet, would he even consider giving up his family? Honestly, you should probably stop all communications with him. If you feel you can't consider him a friend only. If you are inlove with him, then I am sorry to say this, but you dont really love your husband.
2006-09-13 05:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find him and have an affair. Then get a divorce and raise your kids by yourself. Later find out that he just wanted a new conquest and end up by yourself. The grass always looks greener but weeds are everywhere.
2006-09-13 04:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by super stud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves loves his family and have no intention of leaving them.
Stop with the what if and face reality. You got a loving home don't mess it up.
Be friends with him their is no harm but don't cross the line
2006-09-13 04:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget all about that guy..focus your aattention to your family especially to you kids..they will be the one who will be more affected when things turns upside down..
he's also married..think!
2006-09-13 05:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋