Hi! there I m 23 n wife 22. we are having a great love life. but now a days she doesnt get turned on. we make love over the phone. and we come almost all the times. I would seduce her, sensulize her over the phone and that used to do. but now a days she has trouble turning on by just listening or imagining me. Even watching a sexy movie didnt help. She does feel like loving me but that cuddlings n all that she doesnt feel like having sex though she wanna be with me, she kisses me, talks to me and prefers me to do the same to her.
2006-09-12 21:46:26 · 12 answers · asked by Abhinav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well maybe she needs to know that she is desirable to you in other ways, and that she is appreciated for more then just sex. i know men tend to think that plaesing their wifes or wanting them physically shows your love, but women tend to think they are being taken for granted. bring her home special little gifts just . show your interest in other ways.go shopping at the mall and hold her hand. open the car door for her. go to the movies, a date movie and hold her hand or bring one home, pull up a footstool and remove her shoes, massage her feet, cuddle, just hold her in bed at times with no expectations.buy her cards, even mail them, what a surprise!call her just to see how her day is going.compliment her on things she does, how she looks,that is the kinda of foreplay that really makes a woman want a man.
2006-09-12 22:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by smilingbluelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't seduce or turn her completely over the phone. Flirt over the phone let her mind just think of the flirt. Do the seducing at home.
Flirt fun around and don't push her to the bed. Whisper in her ear you want her and other things and then go on to do other things. A kiss a hug but no forcing to the bed. She will come around and drag you to where ever she can get you.
Let the games begin
2006-09-12 23:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay. If you are living with her (hence no need for the phone sex) then you have to pay attention to her. Talk to her. Ask her how her day went, ask her if she's feeling tense or depressed and if there's nothing emotionally upset in her...then you have to focus on your technique. Romance is really important so if you come early from work, make her dinner, do some chores, give her a sensual massage, prepare her bath so that you can scrub her back...light candles in the room, play soft music and tell her that you just want to play with her...not necessarily have sex...then stimulate her in the way that only you know how to...ask her what she likes best and do that again and again...indulge in lots of foreplay and you'll find that she's more than willing to make love with you.
2006-09-12 21:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong somewhere , if you aint turning her on anymore, it could be that she has some emotional problems ,or some kind of problem she dosent feel safe to discuss becos she is afraid of loosing you or definitely afaid of something. Since she still kisses you and all the rest hummmm , ask her if she enjoy making love with you , ask her if she is still in love , keep asking questions and show her that you care and it s givin u a concern , you will definitely win her heart back.But you have to be patient with her , show tender loving care . with persistent ,patient and love you will definitely win her back.
Something is definately wrong .....find out!
2006-09-12 22:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Master of the Game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the phone and in to the bed.
Touch her like you have hours and hours for her along.
The phone thing.........that has to get OLD
It is time to seduce her.
2006-09-12 22:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to remember:
Men are turned on by what they see and women are turned on by what they hear. It's up to you to say the right thing.
2006-09-12 23:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her fantasise abou another know male. If not your conscience permitting allow her to have sex with anohe male and she will tun on later.
2006-09-12 21:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Satarani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Replace the switch on the doll.
2006-09-13 04:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with me n my bf, for me it's cause im bored n he aint sexy and doesn't give me surprises.
2006-09-12 21:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by I dunno wad to do.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe see a doctor for counciling and tests, she may have an inbalance of hormones
2006-09-12 23:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋