Alot of times I see no fats or no fems on dating profiles and I'm just wondering if there's anyone out there who likes them.
2006-09-12 21:27:37 · 13 answers · asked by What'd You Say? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
gay effeminate men, girlie men = fems.
2006-09-12 21:34:07 · update #1
In my many Google's I have come across gay websites that offer something for everyone.I even found a place for chubby chasers(Guys who like fat men) and chubs(fat men) and on some gay websites I have found that you can be detailed in your profile about whether you're masculine or feminine.
To answer your main question, I am not into fat guys or feminine guys.I like men who take care of themselves at least a little bit an guys who are guys.I guess if I wanted someone who was feminine I would go for a woman.But, I also don't reject people simply on one thing.I take in who people are as a whole.But it helps to be at least a little bit of what I am attracted to if I am going to date someone.
2006-09-12 22:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are those who like overweight or feminine gay men. You are just looking at the wrong dating web site. Just read some of the ignorant answers above and you will discover why they don't advertise in their profiles on open sites.
Did you ever wonder why advertisements for a gay resorts or cruise, show only handsome studs with gorgeous bodies. That is just good advertiseing. I have been on gay cruises and resorts. Believe me, such Greek God-like creatures represent less than 10% of the customers. They are great to look at, but most are so into themselves, you rarely can approach them to hold a normal conversatrion. On the other hand, the other 90% are fems. butch, skinny, overweight, young, old, single and attached men, all intermingling and having a great time.
As one of the answers above state, some of you need to grow up.
2006-09-13 09:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by roqofages 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like most people.
I'm fat myself, and since childhood, they always tried to match the fat guy with the fat girl. Not into girls, but I also prefer somebody not as fat as I am. Just a preference. I'm also not into the really thin, 28" waist guys. Average to a little over is good for me. But as I said, just a preference, I've had all kinds of friends and partners.
As for the fem thing. I like a guy just a little to the fem side of the middle...I think it's cute. I don't like they WAY fem to the point that they're a cartoon character. And I don't like them so masculine that their football pads have left strap marks on their shoulders.
2006-09-13 09:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't particularly care about external things like that. I've dated guys of all shapes and sizes. Ultimately what matters is if we get along on a personal level.
As far as fem, I like real people. Don't act like your butch if you're not. Don't act like you're fem if you're not. I've seen both. I think most people fall somewhere in between but put on an act to attract people. Just be your normal self, weather that's a little fruity, a little butch, or a little of both.
2006-09-13 07:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with a slightly fem guy,we are after all yy & yx .
To the rude rover that seems to know from a personal point of view an aspect (no punn) of some who live within this orientation,not everyone does that.
2006-09-13 05:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being a chubby guy myself, I can tell you that there are plenty of guys who like big dudes. As for fems, I find that they're fun to screw around with, but just too bitchy for anything else.
2006-09-14 11:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is, they're called chubby chasers and they prefer fat guys. i'm stocky myself and it never ceases to amaze me how clueless most people are, they're very picky and judgemental but most seemingly haven't looked in a mirror in a decade or so, and all the "straight acting" guys are full of ****, you're gay just like the rest of us if you have to "act" like your straight you don't have much self respect.
2006-09-13 05:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i have noticed that larger people have better sence of humors and are genrially nicer to be around, some skinny people are too up-them-selves if you ask me. i am bigger than some and i am awsome to hang out with
2006-09-13 04:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK when you say feminine, are you referring to
men or women?
I'm not into full figure.
2006-09-13 04:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just prefer good looking, straight-acting guys. however, if i had to choose fat or fem, i would rather take a good-looking fem than any fat. fat, unless genetic, is a huge sign of no self-respect. i admit that i am not in the best shape but, i am not a fat, welfare-dependent, lazy @$$.
2006-09-13 04:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋