everyone at school says that me and my best friendgirl(lol) would look,go great together as a couple..and we know it ourselves, weve been best friends basically our whole life,known eachother sence babies!but we dont have feelings for one another like that(well,not now anyways)but ppl are always pushin us together, tyrin to make us kiss,hold hands,and ask eachother out..we tell them to back off and all but they jsut say we are denyin our love (gerks),its all just breakin our friendship apart,we try not to let it get to us but its just annoyin,we can barely have a convo w/out ppl sayin somethin...and i don't want our friendship to end over sumthin like this....would should we do??
2006-09-12 21:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had that same situation, my best friend and i face the same comments by people. we have such an open relationship that we actually talk about it and what people say because i had that same worry that it would interfere with a friendship. just talk to her and you guys need to not ignore the situation but find out where each of you stands so you both know, and that you both know that your friendship is bigger than what people say or think..... bottom line, people suck, and you should be as open with each other as you can. i mean, if everyone else is talking about it, you might as well talk about it in an open way..... that won't shut people up, but it'll make your friendship feel stronger.... hope this helps.
2006-09-12 21:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before, I used to have the same platonic relationship with a very close friend I have in college. Our peers are always cheering up for both of us to get married!!! haha.........but both of us know better. We are very good together- as friends -not as lovers. Now, I haven't seen him in like a decade! but he emails me sometimes, we are still keeping in touch. Maybe in your case, do not force yourself to love a person - romantic wise just because everyone says so. It's better if time would tell- if the feelings blossom then by all means pursue her! but if not both of you have a friend for keeps- it's a win-win situation, rather than act prematurely.
2006-09-13 05:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourselves and continue being friend's. Sometimes when we have a relationship with a best friend, It doesnt work out, and you might even end a friendship. Think about it.
2006-09-13 05:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deffintly agree with "yee haw". I know I'm not answering your question, but I figured it'd help to know somebody else agrees on the same thing so it makes you feel better about rather or not making that decision, right? Well, good luck. :)
2006-09-13 04:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by *Elle Marie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what your heart says
2006-09-13 04:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not listen to people...
2006-09-13 04:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋