We have been married 7 years and since the birth of our daughter six years ago, he tells me that he can go without sex, it isn't a priority to him. He keeps encouraging me to meet up with a male friend. I am at my wits end as this doesn't say much about me. He feels it is a problem that i have such a high sex drive. I am only 29
2006-09-12 21:17:44 · 13 answers · asked by CLEVER 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not normal.....39 here and still have a strong sex drive...he needs help.
2006-09-12 21:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a comment issure, but not many like to talk about it. A lot of men and women go off sex sometime in there mar age. Has he seen a doctor? or could there be other worries on his mind? I wouldn't go out with your male mate, things might happen between you. This will confuse you even more, especially if you end up having sex with him. Try and get away for the evening so it is just you and your hubbie, tell him how you are feeling. Or have a girlie evening, that sometimes helps. All the best, tjx
2006-09-12 21:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. your sex drive at the age of 29 is quiet normal. i think he may be having some kind of psychological problem . you have patience and i think he will find interest again. one more thing what do you mean by "he keeps me encouraging me to meet up with a male friend". does he also have one girl friend?at the end i just want to say that after looking after your family you should also look after yourself and always make yourself look attractive to your husband.
2006-09-12 21:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard of this problem before. sometimes even bad enough that he wont even sleep in the same bed with you. i would decide how important the sex is to you relationship. It does not speak to well of it if he is telling you to get a male friend. Leave him,then get a male friend, and divorce his a***. maybe he is gay or something.
2006-09-12 21:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something sound fishy here.He is telling you to go meet up with a male friend. Hhhhmmm something is saying to me that he is telling you he is not wanting to be with you and wants you to go find someone else. If wasn't interest in sex he would of gone to the doctor. Why don't you say to him, why don't we see a marriage counselor together. See what he says. If he gets angry and says no that is a sign right there that he is not interested in your marriage. I would go by myself after that to counselor to help myself not him.
2006-09-12 21:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 36 years man, but i do sex 2-3 days in a week. it is not possible to do every day. life is more than sex. love yourself, your husband and your child more than sex.
Important note all men will have sexual probles but they dont revel it instead they quarrel with their wife. Lucky your husband loves you more.
2006-09-12 21:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not in the least normal, and you have a serious problem on your hands. It is time to ask yourself the famous question: are you better off with him, or without him?
2006-09-12 21:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no fixed age to lose sex. but the adivises given by ur husband are dangerous. don't accept.
2006-09-12 21:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is gay. He may have medical problem.
2006-09-12 21:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not normal better both of you go to marriage counselor
2006-09-12 21:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋