would u ever reject ur partner in bed?did u?Y?
How did u feel after rejecting ur partner if u did?
2006-09-12 21:06:42 · 18 answers · asked by Musty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes - my boyfriend rejected me on our first night we slept together. it was the most painful experience in my part and he doesn't know it until now. i had an impression that we were going to have sex because we even took shower together but when we were in bed he decided not to proceed with it. i couldn't believe he had a gutt to even take me to sleep with him. it hurt so bad in my part because i looked like a stupid idiot with my clothes off and he got up and told me he does not want to do it. That moment felt like i was melting away. it's been a year that since happen and i think he didn't feel bad for rejecting me. i don't know why he didn't want to do it. I can't say that he's not attracted to me because he even takes me out to all the time and takes me to his business affairs, but I don't know what his problem is.
2006-09-12 21:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Friv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is beautiful when both partners are mentally and physically ready. So what is there, if one partner rejects another in bed that means you can plan in a better way for the next day. Be positive. Positive thinking will do the best for you. Try another day.
2006-09-13 04:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Biss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the end of my last relationship, we were so angry with each other back and forth that in the last year and a half, we only had sex about 3 times. She would reject me, then I would reject her.... It was so stupid. We loved each other so much, and yet we were so angry.
If I had it to do over again I would not reject my lovers advances ever. I would genuinely try to get in the mood with them - maybe take a little more time to do so.
2006-09-13 04:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have rejected my partner in bed. It was because I was tired of him and was about to dump him to the curb. I felt relief & joy. He was a loser. I did get some good sleep after I rejected his sorry butt. I should have put him out for the night, but it was raining and the bridge back to his place was flooding.
2006-09-13 04:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea one time.. And i feel sorry about it ...
It was when I was almost on the peak and suddenly something came to her mind and she started talking about it.. at that moment i was unable to respond to her and tried to bring her attention to me and did not reject her in the first instance... but she insisted to have a response .. this was rediculous and i lost my mind and erection too... lol and i had to reject...
I know had i tried i could have manage to provide her response and hence i still feel sorry about it... next day she also said sorry for the same...
2006-09-13 04:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called guilt.... ever taken psychology? well there is this guy called Freud and he was one slick and sick man who wrote about the subconscious mind. your subconscious is taking over and telling you something. maybe the guy or gal is not meant for you and the subconscious is telling you this. could be a 4th dimension alien controlling your toughts or maybe it is your aunt Matilda trying to get some common sense into your pretty head....
2006-09-13 04:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Guadalupe Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did!!
What do you do when you are not in the mood? or when you are too tired to indulge in the bed?
I did't feel bad, but partner did.
2006-09-13 04:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Simmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this little girl had a tat-too on her thigh that said " the best you will ever have " had to throw her out of bed
2006-09-13 04:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never rejected anyone for sex... there have been times that sex was unsatifying, but talking and teaching each other works wonders... ;)
besides, what has a bed got to do with sex??? :D
2006-09-13 04:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never have done this but I wish I would have.....it would have saved me alot of trouble. Why do the losers have to be such good lovers????????
2006-09-13 04:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by zaeli22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋