2006-09-12 20:36:28 · 27 answers · asked by cowwhiskers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't be.If they were all that great he would still be with them!! An ex is an ex for a reason.Never compare yourself to them either.He chose you,he likes you,fancies you and wants to be with YOU.Jealousy is not a good trait to have.It can eat you up inside and have a detrimental effect on a relationship.Let it go.
2006-09-12 20:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I will be straight out with you since "I been there done that.. type a thing.
#1: You are unsecure person; you think that they are better than you.
#2: Your boyfriend is a looser and talks about his past experiences to see how you re-act. If he talks about the good times he spend with his past lovers; Why is he not with them?
#3: He had too many relationships and you wonder if he has one now.
#4: You have had too many relationships and you wonder id he is doing the same thing
The solution is easy: If he gets another girl; feel secure girl! he is not meant for you; You deserve better. THERE IS PLENTY A FISH IN THE WATER..... There is somebody out there that will make you fell happy and secure about yourself..................So what is the lose?????????
2006-09-13 03:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by maderavmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason that I can think of is that you are insecure with yourself.
You can't compete with his past and if he wants to marry you then obviously his past loves couldn't compete with you.
Focus on your future. It's a prettier picture.
You might take a hard look at yourself too. Find out why you are so insecure.
2006-09-13 03:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity, knowing about his past is hard to deal with you don't want to think about your fiance with another woman no one does its natural. If he isn't dwelling in the past you shouldn't either
2006-09-13 03:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by bambi81377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're insecure about your relationship at present and insecure in yourself too. Remember, your finace's past loves are exactly that...in the past and you are his present and his future, he's not marrying them...he's marrying YOU! Take a self confidence course www.selfconfidence.co.uk and feel better about yourself and remember that you're special, you're in love with someone who loves you and you'll be married soon...why worry about whom he went out with in the past?! You should be thinking of your future together!
2006-09-13 03:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not marry someone I m not secure in my head..my heart my gut feeling whatever....
2006-09-13 03:47:25
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jealousy....is not something u feel when u r secure of someone...trust me...im not the jealous type....my bf is a ladys man and I KNOW he loves me....but I being in a relationship with supposedly perfect good guys and I feel something is not right...and we just give it a name...jealousy....think twice before getting married under those conditions and feelings ull be miserable and we
Insecurity
either in yourself or your fiance's love for you. I don't know how to get over your jealousy. Love yourself and believe he loves you. If you can't do both of those, it wont go away.
2006-09-13 04:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to worry,correct me if im wrong but your not with this guy no longer than 3years?
your still gelous because you wish you were his 1st girlfriend & his 1st timer (verginity) soon you will see just how much he means to you & soon enough will put al that past gelousy to the back of your head,i wont lie but it will always be there but not as strong as now,you make him reasure you that your the world to him & same as yourself & all will be adam&eve before you know it,dont worrie ;o you'll be just fine
2006-09-13 03:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by bt1460 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to the bimbo.
your jealous, because your a woman, and we all are a tad jealous of our mens previous relationships... We like to imagine our boys as cryogenically frozen, with no lives prior to meeting us....
or maybe thats just me? j/k ;-)
2006-09-13 03:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Max 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are jealous of them because you dont have alot of self confidence... Just remember he is marrying you and not those ex's, so hold your head high and just think to yourself. They werent good enough for your man.
2006-09-13 03:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋