2006-09-12 20:22:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
choose both. if your mate really loves you they will stand by you on that. you cant live marriage or life without the funds come on if it has to be a decision for you maybe you arent even ready for that. marriage is an investment and takes decisions and time, patience and accounting and tolerance, testing, communication, dealing with attitudes or say people, come on kind of the same with a career right. so juggle yourself and do the right thing. i know if my mate had to make that decision i would be like look love aint paying no bills but these checks will and that does not mean youre money hungry just smart.
2006-09-12 20:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must choose career. You should be able to have both, but if a marriage does not allow you to follow a career as well, then take the job.
Compromise is an important element in marriage.
2006-09-12 20:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by MOI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person who knows the situation, thus be able to make the decision.
Look at your wants and needs for the future. Can you see yourself living with the man you are now considering, for the rest of your life? Are you prepared to give up building your career for him? Do you see yourself being happy living with him, with children being brought up without conflict with him? What are the possibilities in your career, if you do not get married?
Once you considered the 2 alternatives, weigh them against each other. Then your decision will be easier.
2006-09-12 20:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? Marriage isnt a career its a contractual agreement between two people who want the same thing...focused on a particular path ahead and usually to have kids...building a foundation from love and acceptance and kindness. If youre single you might head into a career. If you meet someone you love along the way...you may reconsider your direction or priority. I personally believe if youre going to have kids though...stay home.
2006-09-12 20:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not both?! Yes, I was in that position, I had both but gave up career for my child. It actually depends on your situation: financially and emotionally.
Marriages break because of financial difficulties too and problematic kids come about because they are materially overwhelmed but emotionally a vacuum.
If you are already in love and ready for marriage, then talk to your better half about the future. Personally, is living in a material world very important? If yes, then forget about marriage.
2006-09-12 20:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A balance of both. Lots of women work after marriage, there's nothing wrong with that. There are so many options open to working moms nowadays including part time jobs, jobs with flexible timings, work at home jobs...and once you have kids, there are options like day care, babysitting, nannies and part time jobs of the evening with your husband is home. Whatever it is remember it should make you happy because you being happy will make your family happy and if you're unhappy...they will be too! Who says you can't have it both? Just make sure your partner is supportive of this idea and willing to help you.
2006-09-12 20:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that a typical question to answer.
both the things are equally important.intodays life it is not possible to be a complete house wife . the lifestyle and daily requirment doesnt allow u to do so . both the partners have to earn inorder to lead a good life . equally it is also true that carrer alone cant make ur life happy . We have to have family and people around to share our feeling and immotions.
what u can do is to make a balance in ur personal and professional life like most of the people doing now
2006-09-12 20:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say your career and then marriage. Getting a career will and can help you have a more happy marriage. Think about it you will have money to fulfill things needed and money to meet other obligations. You would be grateful if you choose career.
2006-09-12 20:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 21:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart girl......... if u love him dont loose him for something u can have it after getting married, but if u choose ur career maybe u will not love somebody like u used to love him! get me? i mean come on u have all ur life to get your career.
this is what i would do if i was at your place, honestly!
2006-09-12 20:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by dar662 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋