Why is it that when you are in a serious relationship your boyfriend doesn't want you having other males as your friend?
2006-09-12 20:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by tpchick22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is it that they don't trust you or they figure a girl and a guy can't just be friends?
2006-09-12 20:18:11 · update #1
I ask this question because I don't hang around females and once we got together I cut off all of my male friends for him I just wanted to see if guys consider this as a big deal would he be mad if I started back talking to them
2006-09-12 20:53:16 · update #2
I don't have any female friends because I know how females are and I rather not have any as friends I get along better with guys alot of you ladies may understand where i am coming from
2006-09-13 13:34:07 · update #3
Good question... Ill be honest early on in our relationship I has a sense of insecurity as well as her. As time passed and we became more secure our trust level increased. Im not saying it doesn't flair up on occasion. If your an outgoing friendly person as is my lady that people tend to draw to it's something he has to learn to deal with. Trust one of the big keys in a relationship. Without it you can tear a relationship apart mighty quick.
2006-09-12 22:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are this... man are always in competition with each other, and they just don't want any man to be better company especially to their girl. And most, not all, men are dogs, and they know that it would be hard for them to keep a female friend, so they think we are the same way. And to some extent we are. I know that all of my male friends would go for a piece of a$$ from me if I offered.
2006-09-12 20:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by sweetiepie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you would not like him having a girl as a friend. Same reason. Now men feel once their relationship is serious, you are committed and they have a strong hold on you, even though a ring is not on your finger. It is like a dog got a bone and do not want no-one to mess with it. To that man you are devoted, special, and committed unless something would happen to end the relationship.
2006-09-12 20:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are prepared to give up all your male friends for the rest of your life to be with him, don't have him as your b/f. You are obviously not ready to be in a committed relationship at this moment, because you do not seem to have any close female friends. Why not?
2006-09-12 21:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he think that you "May" have had sex with that male friend in the past. Have you? if so Why are you going with the boyfriend? Think about it girlfriend? If your boyfriend had a lot of female friend, how would you feel and/or think?
2006-09-12 20:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
scared that you will leave them they have a fear and maybe don't really know how to treat a girl the way she needs to be treated
2006-09-12 21:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by dee d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because to a guy every guy that talks to you must like you.
2006-09-12 20:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the guys they don't trust, not their girlfriend.
2006-09-12 20:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he know's all guys are Chihuahuas and they'll be humping your leg all the time
2006-09-12 20:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A GUY SO HE SHOULD KNOW WHAT GUYS THINKING
2006-09-12 20:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋