follow up from my last question about the "friend" of mine?

Question

so last time i talked about how my "best friend" completely went behind my back to talk to my ex and ended up talking about me and tellin him really personal things about me that really pissed me off.. i didnt talk to her for awhile.. but recently i received an email from her which started off to be an apology letter.. maybe the first sent.. then it ended up sounding as though she was the victim and how im not a good friend for not forgiving her and how i have faults too and how she always forgives me about them but i just dont know how to forgive peopel... i mean i was really hurt by wat she did... am i being stubborn?... could i have asked for a worse friend?... anyways.. my questions really is.. that its affecting my entire "group" of friends and they want us to "resolve it" somehow.. but i have no intention of being friends with her again.. i know i shud talk to her.. but the more i think about it.. hte more frustrated i get... so how do i resolve this??

Answer 1

I wouldnt listen to your friends and i wouldnt talk to her...

Answer 2

Forgive and forget about the past and move on, girl.
By harbouring all the hatred and anger over whatever happened in the past, you are hurting yourself mentally and physically, because the hatred and non-forgiveness will produce negative energy that will affect your health internally.
When you forgive and forget, you will feel happier in you life and so will your friend.
So, go on and live and enjoy your life. Don't make it miserable.

Answer 3

I think the two of you just need to sit face to face and have a talk. She may not realize how hurt you are, and you may not realize how apologetic she feels. If you talk, you need to do it without prejudice or anger, or you will not have good communication. If you start with an open mind, you will end with a clear head. Good luck.