2006-09-12 20:14:47 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My husband and I do but that is how we work. Everyone is different. We know it's stupid and after we are done having our hissy hits then we laugh about and go about out normal daily stuff. As long as it's not getting in the way or you are taken it to the extreme then I say your fine, but it depends on you and your mate. If you don't like talk with them and flat out explain how you feel. My hubby and I know the difference between out fights. You just have to watch what battle you pick. We love and respect each other and we have been together 6 years and married 3.
2006-09-12 20:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly abnormal to argue on a daily basis especially over trivial matters. An argument can only be started if the other part respond. Therefore, in order not to argue, write down what you are not happy about on a piece on paper, after that burn it and flush the ash down the toilet bowl. In that way you do not need to argue again.
2006-09-12 20:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by kongchai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , that mean there is something wrong with the relationship, is either you do not understand each other , there is no love nor respect or temprement problem, i suggest you listern more and talk less so that you will be able to deduce the cause of the arguement .
Secondly it depend on your manner of presentation of your want , high pitch voice or in a subtle manner this could also agravate the argument . to me when am involve in constant argument it means am just there for a reason .
2006-09-12 21:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Master of the Game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal. It's childish! Learn to grow up.
By not arguing over differences in opinions and values with our friends, we show our maturity and understanding of the other person. We must learn to respect other peoples' views and ideas, especially our mate's.
If this continues, then you ought to stop being a couple! Your life will not be so miserable. Nothing is right or wrong, but thinking makes it so!
2006-09-12 21:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal there is no-way possible that two people should argue that much hell i didnt even argue with my sister growing up and we were very close in age I guess what im trying to say is that when two people are arguing that much its because something is seriously wrong...someone in the relationship is seriously hurting and doesnt know how else to communicate anymore and the one who is probably at fault or who is the major contributor to your problems seems to try to ignore the problems and just go on like the other isnt even around.....be very careful if you are the one who is causing the arguements do alot of soul searching to make sure its not just your insecurities on the other hand if your nagging to death because you have some feeling that somethings not right ....than why suffer with dragging it on and on man let it go.....I mean whats love got to do with it.......as my husband always says "IF ITS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE IT IS" no doubt.....good luck...ANGEL
2006-09-12 20:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's normal. I think that's a sign that you guys are getting tried of each other. I feel like you can be with someone for years, then over time you find out that this person is not the person you thought he/she was. Once you start arguing it will eventually turn into a fight.
2006-09-12 20:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by sweetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It shows that there are some underlying tensions in the relationship that aren't being resolved so instead fighting is taking a petty level. If the relationship is to be saved, its better to go through some couselling.
2006-09-12 20:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal and the two of you need to sit down and talk and see what the underlying problem is, write it down on paper what it is you like and dislike and compare the notes and try to compromise on the issue without arguement, if you cant do that seek counseling, if that does not work then you need to part and go separate ways
2006-09-12 20:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by kalela L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it usually hide bigger issues underneath. You may argue so much over stupid thing to express this anger. You should sit and talk about it. It may get further and then it's too late.
2006-09-12 20:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that it is time for you to break up! What if you were married and had real problems like finances, and child care, inlaws etc. Move on, life is short and you are only young for so long.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-12 20:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋