I caught my girlfriend cheating on me and i was heart-broken, but not enough to stay with her so after i dumped her I decided that i wasn't going to let her off the hook that easily...i want to make her suffer just like I did because i never cheated on her I don't believe in that "men can cheat crap" i was loyal to her...and loved her to death. She always knew how much i loved her....While she was away "on a trip" cheating on me i was shopping for our engagement ring....but i saved myself tons of money....anyways i need you help Ladies ....please be creative!!!
2006-09-12 19:55:42 · 8 answers · asked by Circle R designs CEO 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
we had been together for 4 years since senior year in high school
2006-09-12 20:06:16 · update #1
not that i have cheated, but from my girl friends' stories, the thing that their ex boyfrends made for them to be so heartbroken (more than just hurting them physically, so cross out those putting an insect in her handbag or gum in her chair-- those are too childish) is to introduce them to their "new and improved" (just like the products in commercials) girlfriend or date... who happens to be looking A LOT better than they are and/or they don't expect for their guys to be hooking up with someone like that.
At this point, you should be able to realize that women has that insecurity side of their personality and when that is triggered, it is triggered big time. And of course, rumors that will get to her should show that you are really very happy about the breakup because not only did you find out she can be unfaithful but you met someone whom you feel you're going to spend your lifetime with. arrrrg, that'll probably kill her (sorry to my fellow ladies for sharing the secret).
just the same, i don't advise that you get a girl friend for the sake of being able to show someone to her or to her friends (which will eventually tell her). just try to really wait for the girl heavenly matched for you and i'm sure it'll be worth the wait. don't pretend being happy with someone you're not.
anyway, why do men always want to get even? hehehe just teasing, i know you feel really bad but hey, there's a lot of fishes in the sea. and looking in the bright side, she just saved you a possible marriage with a lot of infidelity. =)
2006-09-12 20:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lady but I can help you with this one. Good guys need to stick together. I don't know about the worst thing a guy could do, but I do know about the best thing a guy could do. I would let the anger and frustration flush right down the toilet. Don't waste your time thinking about the selfish tramp that just saved you some serious money on a engagement ring. Instead take that money and go to Las Vegas and have a great time and whatever happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Hopefully you will hook up with a sexy gal pal and you guys can take some hot pictures and then when you get back you can send to her and let her know that she did you a favor by cheating because you found the most beautiful woman on Vacation because she pushed you away. I think that should do it.
2006-09-12 20:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go... The worst thing you could do right now is make her feel justified in HER actions by your acting like an ***... If you try to exact revenge on her, she's just gonna turn around and say...
And you wonder why I cheated on you, you immature jerk!
2006-09-12 20:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm obviously a guy and I have no idea what the worst thing that you can do to her is...... But I do know the best thing you can do for yourself. Let go of this 'bad situation' and start dating again. You'll hopefully find someone worthwhile.
2006-09-12 19:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by chitown.nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing would be for him to date one of my best friends or a cousin! Its happened to me and its not the best feeling just to let you know!
2006-09-12 19:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex went out with my best friend after we broke up.
And I hadn't cheated on him or anything. He dumped me in an email....im still looking for my revenge.
2006-09-12 19:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by -x-STEPHiE-x- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what would really kill her - ignore her completely, act as if she has never existed
2006-09-12 19:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw her best friend or sister
2006-09-12 19:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by sam_kali81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋