on FAT people and always make fun of them! Isn't good heart matters rather than good looks!
2006-09-12 19:45:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've noticed that people who make "fun" or "look down upon" others are usually insecure about themselves. They "need" to make others feel badly about themselves to feel remotely good about their own insecurities. I am not a "skinny" person. I have meat on my bones and I am definately warmer in the winter!! lol! I love myself! Anyone has anything to say about that I just think that they must feel really badly about themselves or are too shallow to realize people come in all shapes and sizes!! Beauty is only skin deep. Your real beauty shines through from your heart no matter how "fat" you are!!
2006-09-12 19:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that was what I used to think when I was fat.. hahaha...
I would get real angry when people tell me I would look better, become prettier if I lost some weight..
But after I lost weight, I realized that people do look at fat people differently.. it is a fact of life and we just have to accept it. I do feel that people treat me nicer when I am slimmer!
I think it is because fat people often give people the impression that:
- they are not healthy
- they are frumpy and clumsy
- that they are lazy
- that they are stupid
But a good impression, like respect, needs to be earned.
Most people dun have the time to get to know you and find your good heart and the first impression is often the impression that lasts no matter what you do after that.
If you really feel that creating a good impression in most people's mind is important.. then work for it and slim down.
If not, accept that this is a fact of life and dun let it bother you too much.
2006-09-13 04:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because FAT people are an easy target, you just can't miss!
But seriously folks... I love a BBW just like the next guy but then there are the sloppy ones, you know, the ones where the rolls of fat hang down to cover their knees. They call it morbid obesity but I'll stick to just morbid.
My favorite iSht is when a FAT person gets a handicapped placard for being FAT. That's just plain hysterical because the ONE person who really NEEDS to go for a walk now gets the best spaces in the parking lot right by the front doors of the Krispy Kreme (and the HOT light is on!)
There are times like these where I wish Darwin had been right and only the fittest would survive...
2006-09-13 02:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ren Hoek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is the heart that matters and people often think they are better than fatter people, not sure why just because they are fat I guess. I see "heavy" people and the only reason I think down on the ones that look extremly overweight is because I think if they keep their bodies like that without trying, it seems like they dont have respect for themselves so why should I respect them? But I only think this on occasion , I can usually look beyond the obvious when I meet a"heavier" person because of my own personal experience. SorryI chatted on about myself- dont think I helped much sorry. Bye!
2006-09-13 02:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because fat people are easy targets to skinny people. Good heart matters but its not fun looking at a bunch of fatties all day either.
2006-09-13 02:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion the only "fat" people are those who do not know how to dress appropiate. If you wear pants so tight that rolls hang over, then you are fat and worthy of downward looks. However, if you are a pleasantly plump person who dresses flatteringly, then you are not fat and therefore unless you are a rotten person I see no reason to look down on you.
2006-09-13 02:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Avia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask those who make fun of fat people!
2006-09-13 03:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a matter of perception. at the end of the day, it's most important for them to have a gd heart and feel gd abt ourselves.
if ppl are fat and happy, then it's no longer matters whether they are attracting stares or admiring glances.....
2006-09-13 08:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by phy19050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. Good heart is rarely found these days.
I mean people are sometimes really rude.and they don't imagine this could happen to them. Coz being fat could happen to anyone absolutely.
If u are facing any of this don't give a damn to these people. coz they are not even people.
2006-09-13 02:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat ppl are socially unacceptable. Even seats for public transports (Buses) are design/made to fit small butts.
No one can hurt u unless u let them. Laugh it off
2006-09-13 03:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by shirleyspj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋