its been almost a year in november we broke up. he was my first love and we havent hung out since may. i haven't gotten over him and i still miss him but i am almost certain there is no chance of going back out anytime soon. if i go do you think it'll make me feel better or worse? please serious answers only
2006-09-12 18:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, go you will feel better, if not you always ask what would happen
2006-09-12 18:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by omar823502 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you broke up because you were not the right one for each other. I know this because, if you were the right one you would have never been able to even consider risking your relationship. We date because we are looking for the qualities that we want in a lifetime partner. It is an ex-relationship because it was not a good healthy love, and it was not meant to last a lifetime. Once we truly love, we will love that person for a lifetime, but that doesn't mean we should continue to be involved with that person. In fact, it may keep us from moving forward and finding true happiness with someone else. No, I do not think you should go visit him. Wish him well, and go out with your girlfriends instead. You might just find Mr. Right tonight...ya never know...Take care of you.
2006-09-13 01:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you miss him and haven't gotten over him, going to his dorm would probably make you feel much worse. He may just be inviting you over to hang out as friends and then again, he may just be trying to get something from you. Breaking up is definitely a hard thing in relationships, but not letting the relationship go, and still hanging out, isn't going to help you get over him any quicker.
2006-09-13 01:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it might make you feel worse. Sounds like you still have strong feelings for him and might expect/hope something to happen. You didn't mention why you broke up or who did the breaking up. Did he invite you for the weekend for a special occasion or just to hang out? Can you "just be friends" with him after having a relationship?
If you're determined to go, then go and have a good time, but keep it at a "friendship only" level.
2006-09-13 01:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by lilmizwiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse, you'll just get yourself in a whole lot of trouble again. Try to find a healthier, more stable relationship with someone new instead. Your ex could just be using you for keeping company and might dump you right after. Do you want to go through the pain of another break up, again?
2006-09-13 01:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely no.Don't go to his dorm.U know if he does really likes you he won't broke up with u right? Anyway,don't trust a men that easy.Men are always taking chances on woman.And it is very dangerous.What if something happen to you,would he be responsibility enough to take CARE of you and be responsible on you.Think about it.Don't cry another day.
2006-09-13 01:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by sya-z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, you're best off not to go down there. More than likely, it will stir up feelings and emotions and if you already know that you're not wanting to get back together, well, that's really good that you know that. That means if you go down there, you'll just be wasting his and yours time. You'll feel better not going. I know you've heard this from everyone, but time will help the wounds heal. Stick in there, give it time.
2006-09-13 01:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worse, and if he hasn't talked to you in this long the questions is What does he want. He must want something or he wouldn't call out of the blue like that. Trust me from experience don't go. It will save a lot of heartache.Don't let him sweet talk you either.
2006-09-13 01:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Renee32325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will make you feel better at first, until the weekend is over then you will feel FAR worse then you did to begin with........In all honesty he is probably just inviting you there in the hopes of having sex and nothing more IMO
2006-09-13 01:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, cuz chances are all he wants to do is fool around and when the weekend is over he wont call again until he wants some more action.
2006-09-13 01:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't go. He's your ex boyfriend for whatever reason. People shouldn't turn on/off a relationship like turning on a water faucet. There ought to be some give and take on both sides. It would be foolish for you to go back to him.
2006-09-13 01:19:58 · answer #11 · answered by EW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋