Im 15 and 37 weeks pregnant by a 22 year old I recently founf out he was cheating on me with two other girls getting 1 of them pregnant he isnt with me hes with the other pregnant girl I finally told my mom who the dad was and how old he is she said once she gets back in town shes filing statutory rape I really dont want her to I love him a lot even though he hurt me. He told me on the phone that he would be here for me and the baby but today he said we couldnt be friends that I could only call if the baby needed something and to leave him alone until the babys born. I told him about my moms plans then he decided he could still be my friend.
2006-09-12 16:52:44 · 26 answers · asked by awesome_chick2009 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
lock his *** up. it's only be for a year or two. then he can pay you child support. he sounds like a pretty sh!tty person that you don't want around you or your baby anyway. by the way, you should be very proud of yourself. At 15, pregnancy is a pretty rough thing to go through. There are a lot of girls out there that won't acknowledge their responsibilities. You did. Good luck and congrats!
2006-09-12 18:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother should file a complaint for statutory rape. Some one HAS to stop this low life from reproducing, maybe jail would be the answer.
So let me ask you something. Do you think he told the same lies to the other girls he got pregnant? Has he bought one thing for his child? Did he go to Lamaze classes with you? Is he paying for the delivery? Where in any of this did you get the idea that he gives a rats *** about you? Men take responsibility for their actions, you have let yourself get pregnant by a little boy.
Be thankful your mother is standing behind you, cause he sure won't. Be your friend???? Hopefully the state will be putting him into jail(or keeping him there) for not supporting his child.
2006-09-12 17:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No self respecting 22 year old would get a 15 year old pregnant. Sorry, but he doesn't love you. He is playing you for a fool. Move on, hun. Let your mother file the statutory because he needs to be in jail. He doesn't care about the baby, obviously, or he wouldn't have knocked another girl up while you are pregnant with his baby.
2006-09-12 16:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey! I'm sorry to tell you this but he is playing you for a fool! I can understand that you still love him even after he cheated, trust me My husband cheated on me and I took him back because I loved him. But sweetie, if the only reason he wants to still be friends with you is because of what your mom said than he's just scared to go to jail. Its wrong for him to tell the mother of his child to leave him alone till after the baby is born, if he's not going to be part of your pregnancy then don't let him be part of the baby's life! He doesn't deserve you or a beatiful little baby! You would be doing the little one a favor by just dropping this jerk!
2006-09-12 17:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he cheated on you get money out of him BEFORE the baby is born. He will pay up just to keep his sorry but out of jail! I don't usually like blackmail, but he deserves it. There is no reason that he cannot be friendly with you and have a relationship with his child. Does the other girl know about you? Most likely she doesn't if he was saying that he could not be friends with you. Her baby will be your baby's 1/2 sibling and they have a right to know each other also.
2006-09-12 16:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your still a baby yourself, what were you thinking to be sexual with a 22 year old. I hope you the best out of this situation, you are going to have a baby any day now and your main focus is that beautiful baby, let your mother be there for you and I would listen to her because she is just looking out for her baby girl. Take Care and Be Strong for your new baby. = )
2006-09-12 17:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real winner. Hon, you only "love" him because you have not yet experienced real love. He doesn't care about you. He will add nothing to your life. Your mom will add a hell of a lot more to your life. He has committed a crime. He took advantage of you. Now the only thing you need from him is the child support check.
You do not love this man. Focus your love on your baby. He's only looking out for himself.
2006-09-12 17:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god girl YES he's playing you for a fool . I know it hurts to hear that but the same thing happened to me( i was legal age though). I stayed with him anyway when our second child came I finally realized that what i thought was love was just him sticking around to cover up the fact that he had 2 children with his ex-girlfriend while we were together. So my advice to you is , drop him , he's not worth it. It's hard i know but in the end it will be better for you. If he's done this to you and you know it why would you want him there ? You can do this on your own girl , i know you can , be brave stick to it , you'll be fine !!!
2006-09-12 17:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but yes he is playing you for a fool. I too, am young and pregnant, but through this I realized, unfortunately, listen to your mother. They know what they are talking about. This guy does not want to get into legal trouble. That is the only reason he is sticking around. Do yourself, your baby, and the rest of your lives a favor and honor his request to not talk to him anymore. YOu'll only get hurt again and again. And you dont want to hurt a relationship with your own mother. Imagine if your baby cut ties with you?!
2006-09-12 16:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
God, hell no!!
Drop him like the piece of trash he is, all he's going to do is bring you down. Forget about him now while you still can or you'll be feeding your baby looking out the window waiting for him to come see his child. And he won't.
File child support, go to school and let your parents help you until you can do something with your life.
Let him get all these girls knocked up and you be successful and forget about his dead beat a**
2006-09-12 16:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋