before one of my classes one of my friends told me they where not inviteing me to go to the movies with them because they all thought i was anoying and followed them around alot which is so not true. then when i went to my class i thought about it the whole period and then for the rest of the day. that day i ignored those friend for the rest of the day.
2006-09-12 15:48:09 · 19 answers · asked by leylaansary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, number 1, these are not your friends dear. Friends don't deliberately hurt each others feelings, you know. Second, this so called friend told you that "they" weren't going to invite you to go to the movies with them because they "all" think you are annoying. OK, now you need to ask yourself, " am I annoying?" Cause' most everyone hates to be around someone who is annoying. The good news is, not everyone finds the same things annoying. Honey, all you need to know is those people are NOT your friends. There are plenty of people out there who would love to have a good friend. Just keep on being yourself and I guarantee you, you'll find them, of they will find you! BUT, do yourself a favor dear, don't try to hang around with people who put you down or made you feel bad in any way. You are too good a person for that. They are no better than you. I would stop going around them right now. I bet if you did, they would be coming around before too long wanting to know where you've been! Walk tall girl, Your friend, Terry
2006-09-12 16:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Terry S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That friend may be jealous of you and you should find another friend or two. I know it may be easier said than done, but try not to let one person separate you from the rest of your friends. Maybe she just needs a good talking to, to find out what her problem is and if part of the problem is you, you may have to tone it down a little. Also talk calmly to some of you other friends and see how they feel.
2006-09-12 15:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life. Everyone can be annoying. Sounds like one of your friends is jealous of you and wants you out of the group. Someone is talking crap about you behind your back. Find some new friends.
2006-09-12 15:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it. are you guys really friends then?
are they really your friends is they dont want you around?
are they really your friends is they think your annoying and follow them around alot?
you may consider them friends but it doesnt look they see it the same way.
i guess some of your options are:
1 - if its not true, let her know that you are not, do it politely, calmly and walk away. start making new friends. you get less problems this way.
2 -if you blast her, you would put yourself up for awkwardness everytime you guys cross paths
3-let your friend know your not like that, but if its true, you didnt know you were doing it and youll stop. but let her know what she said stung and is wasnt cool to do that. i would still smile, walk away and make new frirneds anyways.
2006-09-12 16:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends. They are acquaintances.
First of all, ARE you annoying? If so, stop. And stop following them around, too. That is annoying all by itself.
Find some real friends that want you around, once you know that you are not doing something that will drive them away.
2006-09-12 15:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double HELLO.....you probably are part annoying and partly need new friends. Just the fact that you worry about what they think leads one to believe you may be a deserado.
2006-09-12 15:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Stan the answer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont really sound like friends. Not good ones any way. Good friends dont hurt their friends, especially on purpose. If i were you i'd find other people to hang out with.
It's good to be honest, but to be mean is uncalled for!
2006-09-12 15:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by hippieiam29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Reality check! They are not FRIENDS, they are shallow jerks, Ignore them for a LIFETIME, JOIN NEW CLUBS, GET A NEW perspective on friendship and go from there!
2006-09-12 15:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by bugsie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find new friends. True friends, REAL friends always enjoy your company. True friends, like to be around you!
True friends never try to hurt you.
2006-09-12 15:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bernard B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that they're not your friends. Just watch it, when they need something urgently, they'll come to you. Find new friends to hang out with, those who really do appreciate you being around.
2006-09-12 15:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋