2006-09-12 15:11:51 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think she's got a tough road ahead.
2006-09-12 15:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I got pregnant a month after I turned 15, so I kind of know how she might feel. I luckily was able to move in with my mom across state to an area where, unfortantly, I was not alone. There was a teen parenting program that helped over 300 other girls in middle school and high school like me. If she is going to continue with the pregnancy and keep the baby, I would suggest she seek counseling. Not in the way it might sound, but to have someone to help her along the way. I am 19 now and have a 4 year old healthy son. It's not the easiest way to live your life, but it could always be worse. Good luck to her and try to help her find a place where there are people to help her. (Planned Parenthood, Healthy Beginning, etc.)
2006-09-12 15:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If shes thinking of keeping the baby I really hope she has a lot of support and love from her family as she will really need it. It's not easy being pregnant and then having to bring up a child, a lot of hard work, love, time and dedication goes into it and at 13, I'm not sure if she understands all those things yet.
Whatever she decides, I hope shes thinking of the baby first and not herself - the baby is innocent!
2006-09-13 05:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by sasa88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she needs to talk to an adult that she trusts, if this isn't her parents, then maybe a teacher or counsellor.
its a huge decision, and she needs to be 100% sure that she's made the right choice for her what ever she decides to do.
i would keep the number of people who know minimum till she knows what she's gonna do, judging and negativity are not helpful.
is she religious... pray for the strength to make the right decision.
be a friend and support her cus either road, keeping the baby or aborting, she will need ur love and friendship, both are long and painful roads.
2006-09-13 00:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by catzw81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is really sad. Babies should not have babies. If the person who impregnated her is 16 or older they should be prosecuted as an adult and be branded a pedophile. I hope she does okay through the pregnancy and delivery and I pray she gives the baby up for adoption.'
PS what does " do not say I'm jugging her" mean?
2006-09-12 15:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was a senior in high school this freshman girl was huge. She must have been nine months pregnant. We all thought it was scandalous and that her life was ruined.
She had the baby and now and then we still hear about her, and it sounds like she has a nice family and a good life. It must have been tough for her, but today it's all good.
2006-09-12 15:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm difficult. 13 is way too young, but then again is it? everyone shouts paedophile nowadays yet these kids seem to know more than we do when it comes to sex. shame really because they deserve a childhood but decline it.
well it will be very difficult to have an education with a baby around, she will lose her temper a lot with all the crying. wheres the boyfriend? he stuck it in, he should be around too. give her plenty of help and the final decision on the baby is hers. Good luck!
2006-09-12 16:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by chris_p26 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh dear! the poor girl, its hard enough when you are older and married, maybe she could think about having the baby, then having it adopted after she has given birth, at least then she will be giving a couple who are desperate for a baby the opportunity to become parents, my heart goes out to her,she is still a baby herself good luck
2006-09-16 11:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Jugging' her? Wouldn't dream of it love. Seriously, what??!
She has a tough road ahead. It's not all coochie coo and lovely fat babies - it's a tough life. She'll have no social life at all. And why the hell is she having sex at 13!?! That's gross!
2006-09-12 21:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's terribly sad. Poor girl. I cannot imagine the reality of something so huge on the shoulders of a girl so young. She has no idea what she is in for. Her life will never be the same.
2006-09-12 15:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie your not judging her your just concerned about her health and well being.Try talking to her she is kinda young i got pregnant at that age too i now have 2 and im pregnant again.Why dont you spend quality time with her through out her pregnacy and find out how it is.
2006-09-12 18:22:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋