IM 15 YEARS OLD AND PREGNANT WITH MY 2ND CHILD..THERE BY THE SAME GUY BUT I DONT WHAT IM GONNA DO..I CURRENTLY HAVE A 18 MONTH OLD SON AND IM ALREADY 19 WEEKS PREGNANT WITH THIS BABY..I FIND THE SEX OUT NEXT WEEK.
I AM SOOOO SCARED..DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE THAT CAN HELP ME OUT???
2006-09-12 14:32:26 · 37 answers · asked by JAYLYNN 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
FOR ALL THOSE NEAGTAVIE THINKERS OUT THERE..I AM STILL IN SKOOL..I GO TO A CONTINUATION SKOOL WEHER I CAN BRING MY SON SOOO THERE GOES THAT ARGUEMENT..AND I LOVE MY KIDS AND I CAN GIVE THEM EVERYTHING THEY WANT!!! IM THE BEST MOMMA THEY WILL HAVE.
2006-09-12 14:54:52 · update #1
What is it that your scared about? You have one already, you should be prepared for what's going to happen now rather than at the age of 13. Who do you live with is your family aware of the pregnancy and are they being supportive? I think the advice you need is from them on how you can get support to finish school and live a good life.
Good Luck.
2006-09-12 14:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Momma K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok everyone else is bashing u so i am not going to do that.But you have to admit they are right why in the world are you having sex and having children so young.My advice would be if you are not ready which i don't know a fifteen year old on earth who is ready to be a parent,give the baby up for adoption there are lots of older couples out there who are financially stable,emotionally,physically,and are ready to be parents and can't have children.I had a child at nineteen and that was too soon for me let alone fifteen.Just do what is best for the baby don't think about you at this point that is what being a good parent is about.If you are mature like you say you are then think of the child not you or your family and don't worry how anyone would feel about it.Second piece of advice please don't have unprotected sex anymore get on the pill if the guy doesn't want to use a condom and if you are gonna be having sex with someone different use a condom because you don't want to end up with a sexually transmitted disease you can't cure.Its more common than you think and don't think it can't happen to you.Thats all i can say it may be the same as everyone else but really listen and take it to heart because you can straiten things out now before they get so bad you have screwed up your whole life.If you can talk to your parents about this it would be better than coming on here and taking advice from total strangers but if you don't have parents you can talk to and count on get some counseling your gonna need it.good luck to ya and remember you are not the things you have done you can change for the better if you choose too.
2006-09-12 15:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by samwise25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to say that wouldnt sound well not so nice, you hopefully have a good support system at home, which you will need, and are obviously getting medical attention, my real suggestion is sweetie get some Birth control after this child, you are going to be raising your babies, instead of enjoying your teen years, you need to take care of yourself love your babies, and finish school and go to college, those things will help you give your children the best lives you could give them. I can imagine you are scared I had my son when I was 29 and was scared, I cant imagine having 2 at 15, best wishes and good luck
2006-09-12 14:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by rottie110 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop having so much unprotected sex (which so you know is very risky) , close your legs (in the manner of the above stated), and pick up a book to read. You might actually learn that fifteen is too young to have sex.Thats my advice. Live it, learn it, love it! Now if a fifteen year old is reading this, listen to the advice or else you'll end up like the questioner. Not a good thing to be that young and pregnant with your second child.
2006-09-12 14:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend after having this baby that you get your tubes tied, this will prevent more pregnancies. If you don't feel that is a good option there are several clinics, Dr. offices, hospitals, family services and hundreds of online resources that you can use to help you. As for being 15 and with child I hope you are a good parent to your children they are a gift and shouldn't be taken for granted not everyone gets the option to be a parent so be thankful that you were.
2006-09-12 14:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put the penis down! Seriously, you're 15 and already have a kid. Get on birth control, use condoms, stop having unprotected sex! Hell, you're 15, stop having sex all together. As far as what to do with baby #2, hope that the guy can pay some child support. Other than that, I would consider adoption, but that's a very personal decision that's up to you.
2006-09-12 14:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by mojo4395 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
well i do agree with the fact of you are to young to have children because you are still a kid your self. But on the other hand i was in a situation were people judged me i had barely turned 17 and decided to get married and everyone said i was stupid and i was still a kid, but we decided to get married anyways. Well almost 7 years has pasted and we are still married and have 2 wonderful children and are happier than ever. so i guess my advice to you is to stand up to your self and take responsibility for you actions, IT is your decision for you to make so do what you think you should do. But just remember that those children arnt just any other kid, that is one thing that is yours.And just b/c you have 2 kids does not mean your life is over.like i said I'm 23 been married for 7seven years have a 3 and 4 year old and just received my GED last year and am now going to college for a masters in education. So to end it good luck, be strong, have faith, surround your self around people who love you and care for you. and may god bless you and keep your family in his arms.
2006-09-12 15:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd consider my options. Listen, obviously you're young, and will soon have 2 children. Financially in the future it'll be hard for you and your boyfriend, and you'll have trouble putting those poor kids through college, let alone paying for medical expenses and a half decent home and living expenses. Maybe it would be best to give your child up through adoption. It would be the best thing to do-keeping your childs interests at heart, and he/she will have a better chance at living and having a good future. It would be a very hard decision, but the best one in the long run.
2006-09-12 14:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to use birth control correctly or wait until you are an adult and financially stable to have sex again.
My second piece of advice is .... for your baby's sake as well as your own consider the loving , unselfish option of adoption. Let your child have parents who are adults and ready to have a child. Let the child you already have remain your only child. The odds are against him already because his mom is a teenager , don't add to his chances of failure and a bad life by giving him a sibling when you are only 15.
2006-09-12 14:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well u are awfully young at teh age of 15 to even be having sex and to even have a child but 2 wow.. if u dont think you can handle this child maybe have family take over or there is adoption places out there. You really need to think about your life first at that age instead of bringing helpless little kids into it. its not fair to them and its not fair to you, you are missing out on the best years of your life cause u are out there having sex when you shouldnt be. I really dont know what to say just amazes me at your age u are gonna have 2 kids. just keep your legs closed next time.
2006-09-12 14:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jon and Nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋