If your bf threatens to rape you after telling him u dont want to do it right now, what are u suppose to do BESIDES calling the cops?
2006-09-12 14:27:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
After you call the cops, cease to identify him as your bf, and get on with your life. Hopefully, he will get some help before hurting his next girlfriend.
2006-09-12 14:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are supposed to call your family and inform them. Call his parents and such.
But you should also let the cops know first and immediately. You should keep yourself locked in a place you feel secure. You could die from his rape if he did rape you.
Did he treaten to? If so, just stay calm and dont worry. CALL THE COPS that's what ur supposed to do!
2006-09-12 14:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he serious? Has he threatened you before? Has he hurt you before? If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then you need to remove yourself from that situation. Don't be with him any longer. What if next time he doesn't threaten to do it, he just does it? If you are concerned enough about it to consider calling the cops, then you need to not be there. Good luck...
2006-09-12 14:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing, just call the cops. if he is a friend he will not rape you. quit seeing him now and don,t see him again.don,t refer to him as your bf either, he is not a friend. rape is a terrible crime and affects a woman for the rest of her life do not take the chance. and call the police at the least bit of trouble of this kind
2006-09-12 14:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this guy needs to take his horny *** somewhere else! No means no, and any guy should respect that. If he's a complete asshole and thinks your a sleezy chick he'll probably try to get in your pants but don't let him (unless of course that's what you want) which i know thats not the case.
Set his as$ straight in what you want.Whether it be a relationship without sex or what not... and if he trys something fresh then you'll have no alternative but to call the cops.
2006-09-12 14:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your parents to come and get you immediately and go to the cops and report his butt and get it taken care Of before he really hurts you or someone else.. and then stay away from him get a restraining order also put on him to keep him away.. and report him every time he has contact with you or gets to close and makes you feel uncomfortable.
the more times you report him and have it on record at the police station the better it is for you if you have to take further action.
tape record all converstations with him . print out all e-mails he writes but don't answer them. keep record of everything to take to court and have him put away.. He is a danger to society..
call the cops as soon as you get away and feel safe. go where there are grown ups a neighbor or anywhere he can't get to you..
Hope you are safe
2006-09-12 14:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out of where you are, and leave immediately...And never go anywhere in private with him again...That isnt something I would think anyone would say, unless they have some very serious issues. Take it seriously , or you might just find it to be something youll regret if you dont...and I would certainly make someone aware of what happened. Maybe calling a law enforcement officer isnt a bad idea.
2006-09-12 14:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Walk right out the door. If he stops you scream, yell, grab the phone and call 911, if someone threatens to rape he may have intentions to do it at some point.
2006-09-12 14:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by vivib 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the situation immediately. And if he will not let you (forces you to stay) THEN call the cops if you can. In addition to rape, he could be charged with kidnapping.
2006-09-12 14:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Police wont' do much I would expect. I would walk out that door and never look back. Any man that threatens harm, that includes forced sex, is not the man you want in your life. If he would "rape" you what would stop him from assaulting or killing you.
RUN
2006-09-12 14:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋