What was the deal here?
A friend of mine had a housewarming type thing and he invited his coworkers. This hot girl was there and we talked for most of the night and I even saw her stare at me from the distance, just like kept staring with this look in her eye. She would even end her statements with "hmm" or "mmm hmm".
Then I was leaving,
She said "Aww, you're leaving" and I tried talking to her some more but I had to go. Then I contemplated to myself , "Did I blow it?"
To tell you the truth, even though I was attracted to her, I didn't muster up enough guts to ask for her number.....I usually have no problem talking to women. I get nervous at times, but we all do.
Do you think I should have trusted my intuition that didn't propel me to say anything else to her and move on, or blame myself for missing out on a romantic opportunity.
For the record though, any time I missed out on an opportunity with a woman, I realize that I was nuts have made sucha big deal
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BTW, my friend knew I liked her but when I asked if he could mention something to her at work, like ask her about me he was like "I can;t do that dude".
Apparently he said that it wasn't professional. I've known him for 13 years and even though we weren't always close, I kind of find that a little bit of a bad excuse.....People do a lot worse at work that ask someone about someone else to gget answers.....
2006-09-12 14:20:51 · 11 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Evan, that's a good invite for me to have those little 2 points taken away from you stupid ***!
2006-09-12 14:28:33 · update #1
U already know the answer to this! I didn't even hafta finish reading half of it b'for I knew you blew it! "Aw are u going?" DUH!!
2006-09-12 14:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably sleeping with her...
And you didn't blow it, i'm sure you will have another chance. If it didn't feel right though you did the right thing. There are many fish in the sea! Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.
2006-09-12 14:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know where he works, so you know where she works. Give her a call or send her an email! Something as simple as "I enjoyed our conversation at Dude's housewarming, but I had to leave. Would you like to continue over coffee?"
2006-09-12 14:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
psssh no deal i choose my £10,000 hey do you think of there actual is a banker on deal or no deal? or is noel merely speaking on the telephone to himself? or something stupid like that
2016-09-30 21:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you friend if he could just give her a note. Then write a note to her and ask her out for lunch. Letting her know you enjoyed talking to her wouldn't hurt.
2006-09-12 14:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should choose someon for their personality becuz someone hott after marriage can be a royal pain in the ***
2006-09-12 14:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bebo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go with your intuition.She could've asked you for your number too but didn't. If it really bothers you ask for her number and see for yourself whether you were right or not.
2006-09-12 14:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think we all kick ourselves for the ones that got away.
2006-09-12 14:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your scared of women....your gonna have a long wait./
2006-09-12 14:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF IT'S MEANT TO BE YOU TWO WILL RE CONNECT SOME WHERE OR SOMETIME. GOOD LUCK. YOUR FRIEND DOESN'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED.
2006-09-12 14:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋