befor i have my baby cause my mother said i cant stay there with my baby.
2006-09-12 14:16:17 · 15 answers · asked by Tyeshia T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
this is why they have protection. you can learn from this one and have a plan before you get pregnant. your bringing in a baby that is helpless and counts o you, when you cant even take care of yourself. good luck, and may god help you. truth hurts
2006-09-12 14:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by bored at work 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are under eighteen, there are a few options available to you. The first thing you need to do is contact Children's Services. Your parent can NOT by law put you out when you are under eighteen without getting charged with abandonment and neglect. If you want to be gone, there are homes that help pregnant women and teens. You can even go to live in a foster home where a family will help you to get on your feet and help you raise your baby. If you would like to place for an adoption, they will put you in touch with the right people. Contact your local Children's Services Department first, as they will have every resource available to you, and may even be able to give you financial assistance to get started in your own apartment or independent living program. Good luck. I know this is all quite overwhelming. First things first! Get prenatal care and make that call to Children's Services.
2006-09-12 22:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by alone1with3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call any of the oregnancy care centers around you, look under clinics and/or groups in the yellow pages. Call a shelter, they may have a number to an unwed mothers home, or try calling the township and/or city office of the town you live in. Also, you can try the local health department, or welfare office (I know it's not called this, but I forget what it's called no-days) If nothing else works, look up a womens crisis hotline. Unwed mothers homes are not, as some belive for going until you give your baby up. They will help you get your GED if you need it, a job, and pre-natal care, and will help you attain the skills you need to supposrt and care for your baby.
2006-09-12 21:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that sucks try Birth choice look it up on line that's what they do help girls in your situation also I'm sure your local church or Woman's center would help don't be sad there are a lot of places to go don't know what state your in but I know in Cali there are tons of resources go to a community clinic tell them your situation or planned parenthood they all should at the very least have a referral for you to a good place that you can stay temporarily.....I'm so sorry to hear that...I will pray for you
2006-09-12 21:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by klovecalistyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contact other family members first and see if there is anyone willing to help you. If you are a teen you should seek out Child and Family Services in your City/town if a family member can not help you. If you are an adult I would start applying for low income housing in your local area. You should also contact Health and Human services and see what aid is available.
Good Luck
2006-09-12 21:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats so sad your mom feels that way i wish u all the luck and love in this world u have a cruel mother if nothing else i hope some day she will never need u because u will never forgive her 4 the way she is treating u. god bless u and the baby
2006-09-12 21:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your church try an unwed mothers home if you want to give it up try a lawyer to get you in touch with a couple wanting a baby try local social services good luck and protect yourself next time all men are liars and you should not be having sex before marriage this is the outcome don't let the child suffer
2006-09-12 21:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by jk poet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im not sure what state you are in but most state have shelters for mothers and their baby's.. talk to your doctor, he should be able to help you get the numbers for that..
AND this is for your mother im not dissing on her but NO good mom would say that to their duaghter or even put her and their baby out... but i would think about having my kid(s) aound her ..
2006-09-12 21:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by sw33t_n_sp1c3y2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call your local department of social services, they should be able to assist you in finding permanent or temporary housing, and give you financial assistance if needed.
2006-09-12 21:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by rottie110 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to an unwed mother's home.
2006-09-12 21:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋