For a 16 year old girl to have a BF that is 19?My parents think it is,but I really don't.
2006-09-12 14:15:32 · 24 answers · asked by PinkOrchid 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He is very respectable and has never asked for sex.
2006-09-12 14:23:46 · update #1
I'm definatly going to finish school,I'm going to be a Plastic Surgeon,so I have too high of goals to just drop out.
2006-09-12 14:25:09 · update #2
if hes good to u then there isnt anything wrong with that. age is nothing but a #
2006-09-12 14:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong when it comes to love age does not count. I was in the same position you are in when I was 18 and dated a girl who was 15. He seem to be a really nice guy which was good I was like that I didn`t want sex from her I wanted to wait til she was 18 or we were married, if we had lasted, if he is anything like I was then their is nothing wrong. I respected her and didn`t pressure anything and if things got alittle to hot I would stop. Does your BF do you the same thing? To tell you the truth you 2 may not last long just like me and my ex she had 2 years left of high school and I was goin to a Tech. college, but if you 2 are really in love wait til you graduate and get back together. I`m hoping that happens for me after she graduates well good luck
2006-09-14 12:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by flaw236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 your job is to finish school. If he is understanding and respect you he won't put any pressure of any sort. A good lasting relationship is not about selfishness. Stay as friends and a deeper relationship will naturally form. Both of you are still growing and experiencing life at different stages. Enjoying your singlehood. There is no rush to get serious.
2006-09-12 21:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...as you may know or will soon discover, boys to become men until around 33years of age, and girls are far more mature than boys at 16, this is probably why you and him get along well and why you may have chosen him as a partner. My hubby is 16 years older than me I was 18 and he was 33 when we married. I had been dating guys around my age, but all were too immature and not what I wanted. Good luck, however and as long as you feel comfortable and happy together who cares what age difference you are!! ;)
2006-09-12 21:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by ckalmaoui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest at 16, I made those choices for myself. I admit now my parents were right. It wasn't an appropriate situation for me. This man is an adult and you are a child even at 16. I know its not what you honestly want to hear. At 16 I wound up pregnant with the baby, her dad was 22 when she was born. My life now was devoted to raising a baby rather the high school, grades, friends, family, and the importent things teens get to do. Do yourself a favore and trust your parents, before its too late.
2006-09-12 21:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a small age gap, but there is a large maturity gap. This guy is out of high school and has been about 2 years, but u have two years left. If he respects you then it is not so bad. But if I were you parents I would not allow it.
2006-09-12 21:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by beta_slave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 19 year old is out of high school, hopefully in college. They are at a way different place in life than a high school girl. If he's not in college, then he better be in trade school. Otherwise he's a piece of crap just preying on younger girls, who are really easy to seduce.
2006-09-12 21:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't like you having a 19 year old boyfriend because three years difference at your age is like a lifetime in terms of experiences. They think he wants to have sex with you and he probably does.
2006-09-12 21:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im glad u have set ur goals and personally i dont think its too old but it is ilegal in australia for a person over the age of 18 to have sex with a minor
so if you can hold off and keep you life on track i think it will work
2006-09-13 02:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18 so its about the same thing. I'm a sophomore in High School and he is a freshman in college. Our relationship is great! If you feel comfortable around him and he doesn't push you to do anything, then its perfectly fine in my book!
2006-09-12 23:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't care about the age...it depends on a person character...some people tends to tink more mature way so they can handle things in a better way...so if u tink u can handle relationship properly so it would see wat's the age it is even 14 years old girl can have relationship too..
2006-09-12 23:11:43 · answer #11 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋