I got pregnant by my exbf after we were together for 6 months, He broke up with me offcially when I was 5 months pregnant and we continued to see each other till 2 months after I had the baby. He started to see his friends step-daughter who is illgeal from a different country and someone I know about 2 months ago, and he married her this weekend. She is 12 years younger then him also. He just told me today and has called me 5 times since telling me different things. He didnt tell his family so I took the liberty of telling them, they were appualled.He doesnt pay me any child support and I actually pay his insurance. I am so angry I wish bad things to them and his marriage. I really dont beleive whats goes around comes around anymore. I admit I am bitter and dont trust anyone. My son is my life and I wont keep him from his father but I cant see his father for now, it is way to hard on me. Is it bad I dont want to see him?
2006-09-12 14:10:40 · 6 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are raw and hurting right now. The best thing to do for your child is go to court and get child support set-up. Your child deserves this. Next, do not talk to your ex about anything except your child. He is a married man and should be talking to his wife, not you. You will get stronger as you break off with this unstable person. You have to deal with him because of the child but do not get tangled in his marriage and problems.
2006-09-12 14:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Robin N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's normal. Your anger should subside with time. I don't think you should keep your son from seeing his father, but I definately think that your husband has made some bad decisions. I think that you should be sure to instill good morals to your son, because his father's example right now is not the best. I mean, leaving his baby's mother, marrying someone he barely new. And he should definately be helping your out with your son. You should stop paying his insurance and file for child support!!!
2006-09-12 14:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by verony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let this be a lesson for you for then next guy you hook up with. You need to consider some type of birth control!!! You also need to go to an attorney and get him to start paying you child support and have some type of scheduled visitation. And, were you born stupid or did this evolve......why are you paying his insurance.......DUH!!!! And, you need to stay out of his life......if he chose to get married, it is none of your business, so butt out!! You were out of line telling his family!!! You have a choice......make your life miserable or happy! Cut off all communnication and butting in to each others' live unless it is something for the child. Either make a decision to turn your life around or stop whining about it.........period!
2006-09-12 14:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are angry and disappointed by the way he treated you.
But be honest you did let him.
He sounds like a thoroughly nasty man and you may be better off without him.
The thing to do now is to concentrate on your baby who is innocent and deserves a happy life and a happy mother.
Don't even think of poisoning his life with your venom for that man.
Be happy for his sake, make peace with the Universe. Good luck.
2006-09-12 14:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him for awhile. That way your son won't feel the anger.
Stop paying his insurance. He is married now so that means he needs to be responsible.
Get child support.
2006-09-12 14:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it´s not bad, it´s normal, just give yourself some time to adjust then force him to pay you child support :-). And try to get over him, I´m sure you will find somebody and you will have a beautifull family, but just give yourself some time.
2006-09-12 14:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋