Theres this girl and I wanna know how to make her feel good I haven't talked to her yet but I've seen her looking my way and double tating so I need to know how to aproch her and how to make her feel good plz help me..
2006-09-12 13:59:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yah, but i'm kinda shy cause she's older than me and I'm afraid of getting shot down cause every time I have a chance to see her shes with her friends shes either 1 to3 years older
2006-09-12 15:01:44 · update #1
Walk up to her and introduce yourself. Tell her that you have noticed her and ask if you can call her sometimes.
2006-09-12 14:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you noticed whether she's intellectual, artistic, athletic, etc.? If you're interested in a possible relationship with her, introduce yourself to her and tell her you've noticed her and would like to be her friend. Ask her about her interests. Approach her with the idea of first developing a friendship. Statistically, men and women who are good friends have the most fun together and if they have lots in common they stay together. Although girls/women like to hear they're attactive, they can't help their genetics so don't go overboard in that department. Giving flowers or gifts is too forward at this point. Start with meeting at a museum, sports event, or some other public event. If it goes well, you'll know if the conversation will be good over lunch or dinner. Do you hold doors open for women or people older than you? Do you give up your seat to a woman or older person? Is your conversation respectful without cursing? Do you think of others before yourself? Do you leave the toilet seat up or down? Are you self-disclipined? Do you have self-respect? Do you clean up after yourself? Do you smoke and if so, do you keep your teeth brushed and your face washed so you smell fresh and clean? Are your fingernails clean and groomed? Is your nose and ear hair trimmed? Women like maturity, patience, kindness, gentleness, gallantry, chivalry, intellect, a sense of humor, humility, communication, dependability, mental and emotional strength, attentiveness, masculinity, cleanliness, respect and thoughtfulness in a man. If you can't honestly say that you are these things, then a potential relationship with her or any other woman won't work out. If you need to, keep working on becoming that person and you'll be a good man, whether for her or some other woman someday. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-12 14:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her and introduce yourself. Tell her she is beautiful. Ask her if you can have her number so you can ask her out some time. If she says yes, and you go out on a date-make sure you bring her flowers when you go to pick her up. Girls love that.
Always compliment on how she looks. Be very positive about things. That makes EVERYONE feel good. Good luck and I hope this helped!
2006-09-12 14:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her chocolate..lol..j/k..just approach her and smile and ask her really nicely if she would like to hang out and go to a movie sometime or somethin..and if she say's yes..bring flowers! Also complement her..like tell her she has a beautiful smile or somethin..jus don't be cheesy about it!
2006-09-12 14:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice something about her and show her that you've noticed! If she wears blue a lot, bring her a blue flower and say you wondered if her favorite color was blue....or compliment her on something unique, like her smile or eyes....
2006-09-12 14:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at her, hug her, invite her to eat with you for lunch
start with that
2006-09-12 14:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to be smooth
and you know the rest... u are a pro at it... ur a guy!
2006-09-12 14:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do "the just your thing" whatever it is.
2006-09-12 14:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
2006-09-12 14:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a car....
2006-09-12 14:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋