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k, well a boy asked me out, and i really like him....but my best friend also likes him.. what should i do???

2006-09-12 13:52:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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How important is your friendship, sometimes its best to avoid this if your going to hurt your friends... remember friends are for life.

2006-09-12 13:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0 0

A lot depends on the depth of your friendship and how much your friend likes this boy. If you're both mature and she doesn't like him as much as you do, it could work, but in all honesty it's probably better for neither one of you to date the guy. It may cause resentment and jealousy and do permanent damage to your friendship.

I have had my best friend for 26 years and although boys have gotten in the way a time or two and threatened the friendship, we have done our best to stay close and not let them come between us.

Good luck and remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea! ;-)

2006-09-12 21:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by SeaChelle 1 · 0 0

How old are you? If you're under 17, 18...go to your room.

Ok I am being an idiot. If he ask YOU out...I guess that pretty much tells you he likes you...not your friend. Now BE OPEN with your friend...don't let her hear that from someone else... tell her he ask you and see what she says... tell her you won't let anything separate you two...if she's a real friend of yours..she'll understand...if not..oh well...let her go.

2006-09-12 21:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by sjcan77 2 · 0 0

if this girl is your best friend, there shouldnt be a problem with you going out with the guy. i mean there might be some jealously of course but you should be able to get through that easily. go out with the guy, see how it goes. the same thing happened to me (but the girl wasnt my best friend, just someone i was getting ot know) and now we're really good friends and im still going out with the guy.

2006-09-13 15:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If she is truly your friend, she'll understand. You can't pass up every opportunity in life simply because your friends don't approve. They aren't you and they don't have to live your life. Don't deny yourself an experience only to find out later that she may or may not have been willing to show you the same respect. Go out with him and have a good time.

2006-09-12 20:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0 0

wow the same thing happend to my friend ...and she said yes to the boy..but her friends also liked him so they got all upset and they had a huge fight....she is friends with them now but they say they will never trust her ever again... i was there and i said u deserve the boy but friends that also like him will b totally upset... friends come 1st ...epecially if they like the boy ! but he did ask you out!! so i mean ..u gotta make your friend understand...

2006-09-12 20:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Girl same thing happened to me and I said yes well take a wild guess what happened (bff+bf=CHEATING) Yup he cheated on me so if you really like him tell your friend he is yours and you will tolerate no nonsense KEEP A SHARP EYE ON THEM! Oh and make sure the guy won't give in to cheating!

2006-09-12 22:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 · 0 0

dude 2 above me's madddd shady


but talk to ur friend work it out then talk to the boy if only to wait a while

2006-09-12 21:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by genius 2 · 0 0

Tell your friend that he asked you out and if it is ok if you say yes

2006-09-14 12:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by flaw236 2 · 0 0

talk to her about it. ask her if its ok. but boys come and go, friends stay

2006-09-12 21:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0 0

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