i've had sex with 7 people now and it still hurts. sometimes it hurts so much it makes me cry. i've never enjoyed it i just hope that the more i do it the less it will hurt, but this doesnt seem to be the case. i sometimes cause pain on guys as they think i'm too tight. why is this causing me so much pain? why can i not just enjoy it?
2006-09-12 12:53:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
you should really go see a DR......
2006-09-12 12:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the hymen is not completely perforated. You may need to have it looked at by a gynecologist. They can fix that. Some people have a condition called endometriosis which may cause pain during intercourse. Again, you will need to see a doctor for that. As many other people have pointed out, STD is a plausible cause for dyspareunia, which is the name of your condition.
2006-09-12 13:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by mkaraca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get burn after sex, but that is only sometimes. I don't know your case is little different if i were you i will see a doctor. To be honest with you 7 different guys...that is lots of guys that you sleep with and i hope you used protection with all these guys. Go see a doctor ASAP!!
2006-09-12 13:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lady-bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing it because you want to or because you're trying to make someone else happy? Perhaps you're not ready for sex if you are not in love with the people you are getting intimate with. If that isn't the case....give yourself some time to warm up before you get hot and heavy. Foreplay is very important. If you're not lubed up down there it can be very painful.
Relax, slow down and be in love!
(and don't listen to those a--holes who said that means you have an STD....that is not necessarily true. Although you should be using a condom EVERY TIME!)
2006-09-12 12:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may be very small but then a smaller man would not hurt. You could have pelvic inflamatory disease. I think you need to get to your doctor asap.....it can cause sterility baby, so go in asap. You can talk to them about the pain and discomfort even if nothing is wrong, you might be able to do perennial massage with olive oil to renew some elasticity......elasticity has nothing to do with being small so it could be an issue as well. PID is very common.
2006-09-12 12:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other causes to pain during sex besides STDs. Endometriosis is one of them. Cells lineing the uterus grows outside of the uterus and spread into the abdominal cavity. Sound like you need to see a doctor and get it checked out. Hope you find out whats going on.
2006-09-12 13:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by s_t_p10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 34 and I've only had sex with 3 people. My friend has a tight one. What you need is to stretch it with a dildo of some kind. Or find a guy with a small penis. With all your experience I'm sure you've noticed they come in different sizes?
2006-09-12 13:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey for one maybe you shouldn't sleep with so many guys! You've either caught something or you've torn something on the inside. Just to be safe i'd go and visit the doctor! She'll tell ya everything ya need to know. And just maybe you should lay of the sex and give your body some time to heal!
2006-09-12 13:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by K!ll3r K!f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the comparable problem, in basic terms all of it started approximately 4 months when I lost my virginity. when I have been given pregnant i ended having intercourse, did no longer have intercourse for 18 months and at the instant all started back. It does not injury in any respect anymore. We use an outstanding variety of lube and make constructive there is sufficient foreplay. it extremely is extremely useful to pass see your primary practitioner and notice in the event that they have any recommendations. sturdy success!
2016-09-30 21:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like u be for he was to big go smaller and tell him to take his time maybe try oral first so u get wetter maybe that helps if he take his time and u just may have a sensitive Virgina were certain spots is sensitive just ask ya Doctor to check u out.and hopefully someone didn't go to far and rupture anything.yes ask ya Doctor.
2006-09-12 13:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by ebony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young and aren't self lubricating. Women hit their prime in their thirties. Guys hit their prime in their teens. Women have sex for reasons other than sex drive. I bet you have a low sex drive and don't know it. Use lube, there's nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-12 12:57:03 · answer #11 · answered by Hymn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋