Im confused
2006-09-12 12:24:49 · 30 answers · asked by CHANNING TAUM HOTTIE<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I think showers alone are ALOT funner!!! Thats real nasty! And yes,you should read the Bible!!
2006-09-12 12:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by 619ILOVEREYREY619 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your values and morals, the length and seriousness of the relationship, your age, whether you trust the boyfriend and feel that it is right, etc. If the situation is ideal and you are comfortable with it and enjoyed showering together, then I guess my advice would be to be careful (with your heart, your health and your emotions). Practice safe sex, safe showering, and enjoy it! Showering with your lover is a very sensual and enjoyable experience!!! I always love to jump in the shower with my hubby. Good luck.
2006-09-12 12:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. showering is bad.
You don't say how old you are.
Hope you're using birth control - and remember there are STD;s and "taking a shower" isn't going to keep you from getting them
No birth control is 100% effective - so everytime you run the risk of getting pregnant.
and if you're confused then you need to wait until you're ready - which it doesn't sound like you are.
And why is your other post from 19 hours ago say you found him with someone else?
2006-09-13 07:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I take showers together all the time, however, he is 27 and I am 23 years old. I guess it all depends on morals and if you are quite younger I suggest you make responsible decisions.
2006-09-12 12:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cass_17_7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the Bible explicitly says, "Thou shalt not shower as a couple out of wedlock."
It used to be that sex WAS marriage. When you had sex, BOOM, you were married. Some wedding ceremonies still center around consummation and not so much the priest's declaration or signing of the license.
Now, you mature sexually earlier than ever, and are expected to get married later than ever -- after the prime of your life.
Do you think the same being who created us to be a certain way, also commands that we don't act this way?
2006-09-12 12:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you don't want to have sex be the final outcome, but I suspect you already know that. Hope you are a bit older than say, 13 or 14.
2006-09-12 12:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...would you consider it wrong to take a shower with me?
Ooops, I mean, you should not be doing bad things with punk teens, they lack jobs, vehicles, homes of their own, money, intelligence, experience, maturity.
men have careers, vehicles, their own homes, money, brains, experience, and maturity. And we love showering with girls.
So either get your head on straight and finish school, or find a grownup who will be able to support you and the child you will be having together.
2006-09-12 12:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are for starters - what are your parents attitudes for another thing. From the way you said that I hope you are taking showers with him in your bathingsuit
2006-09-12 15:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if its just the shower go for it lol if he wants to the go and take a shower but umm anything else in there be safe
2006-09-12 12:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by SMILES:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong between two consenting adults as long as they are both happy about it and it is between them. You sound uncomfortable about it but its not for others to tell you if its wrong..this is about what feels right for you.
2006-09-12 12:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋